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“In der Kindheit haben wir intensiv erlebt, dass der Kontakt zu unseren Eltern oft eine Gefahr darstellt. Wenn wir unsere dadurch entstandenen Schutzmechanismen nicht gelöst haben, sehen wir andere auch weiterhin als Bedrohung an. Dann sagen - und meinen - wir vielleicht, dass wir unseren Mann oder unsere Frau lieben, umbewusst aber kämpfen wir in der Beziehung um unser Überleben.”

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