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“The media has outright lied on me. They reported that I called myself Osama's [Bin Laden] 'sex slave,' apparently unaware that sex slaves aren't allowed to look their master in the eye, write poetry with him or go on hunting excursions with him.”

Quote by Kola Boof

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Kola Boof is a renowned author, born on March 3, 1969. Her works span various genres, including autobiography, novels, and poetry. Boof is known for her unique writing style and her focus on women's experiences. more

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