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“Modern children were considerably less innocent than parents and the larger society supposed, and postmodern children are less competent than their parents and the society as a whole would like to believe. . . . The perception of childhood competence has shifted much of the responsibility for child protection and security from parents and society to children themselves.”

Quote by David Elkind

Book:Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance

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Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance

This book delves into the changing relationships and challenges faced by contemporary families, analyzing the shifts in traditional family structures and the impact on individual members. more

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David Elkind is an American psychologist known for his research on child development. His work focuses on children's autonomy and creativity, particularly the impact of play and school education on children. Elkind's contributions have had a profound influence on the fields of child psychology and education. more

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“The shift from the perception of the child as innocent to the perception of the child as competent has greatly increased the demands on contemporary children for maturity, for participating in competitive sports, for early academic achievement, and for protecting themselves against adults who might do them harm. While children might be able to cope with any one of those demands taken singly, taken together they often exceed children's adaptive capacity.”

“The idea of childhood as a social invention, in retrospect, is hardly credible. In the Bible, in writings of the Greeks and Romans, and in the works of the first great educator of the modern era, Comenius, children were recognized as being both different from adults and different from one another with respect to their stages of development. To be sure, the scientific study of children and the increased length of life in modern times have enhanced our understanding of age differences, but they have always been acknowledged.”

“If it is to be done well, child-rearing requires, more than most activities of life, a good deal of decentering from one's own needs and perspectives. Such decentering is relatively easy when a society is stable and when there is an extended, supportive structure that the parent can depend upon.”

Ifs Needs Wells Children Done Easy Parent Deals Perspective Depends Activity Structure Stable Supportive Child Rearing

Book:The Hurried Child, 25th anniversary edition

Source: The Hurried Child, 25th anniversary edition

“It makes little sense to spend a month teaching decimal fractions to fourth-grade pupils when they can be taught in a week, and better understood and retained, by sixth-grade students. Child-centeredness does not mean lack of rigor or standards; it does mean finding the best match between curricula and children's developing interests and abilities.”

Source: TIES THAT STRESS

“Taking the child's point of view demands good will, time, and effort on the part of parents. The child is the clear beneficiary. Parents who make the effort to understand their children's point of view are likely to treat children fairly and in an age-appropriate manner.”

Children Age Parent Views Effort Clear Demand Treats Point Of View Appropriate Good Will Beneficiaries

Book:Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance

Source: Ties That Stress: The New Family Imbalance

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“... if you're poor and ignorant, with a child, you're a slave. Meaning that you're never going to get out of it. These women are in bondage to a kind of slavery that the 13th Amendment just didn't deal with. The old master provided food, clothing and health care to the slaves because he wanted them to get up and go to work in the morning. And so on welfare: you get food, clothing and shelter--you get survival, but you can't really do anything else. You can't control your life.”

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“As a Christian, as an individual, as a doctor, I am absolutely opposed to the death penalty.”

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“If I could be the "condom queen" and get every young person who engaged in sex to use a condom in the United States, I would weara crown on my head with a condom on it! I would!”

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“Judge Thomas was a man who had used the system to get where he wanted to be, but then felt that everyone else should pull themselves up by their own bootstraps.”

Men Should Wanted Used Felt Judging Conservatism Opportunism Bootstraps

Author:Joycelyn Elders