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“...narrative therapy says that who we are is largely a product of the stories we tell ourselves about who we are. [...] In other words, our narratives about ourselves don't merely reflect who we are: they help produce who we are.”

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Book:A Significant Life: Human Meaning in a Silent Universe

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A Significant Life: Human Meaning in a Silent Universe

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Todd May is an American philosopher known for his contributions to existentialism and phenomenology. His research focuses on themes such as death, loneliness, and freedom, which have had a profound impact on contemporary philosophy. more

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