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“Honeymoon period takes care of itself but the onus is on the couples to nurse the marriage after that.”

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“Nietsche once observed that the primary purpose of marriage was conversation. The purpose of a committed relationship, of which marriage is but one example, is not to take care of each other, to reinforce the parent-child complexes, but to grow through and with each other. Relationship is meant to be dialectical—soulful encounters that temper and enlarge.”

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Book:Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding and Healing of Men
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“Totul debitat de preot, cantat de cor, ca si ritualul cu impreunarea mainilor, inelele, coroanele etc. au ca sens nu o casatorie, o uniune, deci o iubire, ci o inlantuire (inelele), legarea unei femei de un barbat, legarea unei sclave de stapan. Cu claritate reiese ca aceasta ceremonie nu are loc intre doua fiinte egale,ci intre una inferioara si superiorul sau. Cu alte cuvinte, iubirea, dragostea nu exista in casatoria crestina. Caci intre un inferior si un superior pot exista, in cel mai bun caz-din partea inferiorului-respect, admiratie, supunere, iar din partea superiorului condescendenta, ocrotire. Toate acestea la un loc (repet: in cel mai bun caz) pot forma o "afectiune" a celor doi unul pentru celalalt (afectiune de natura diferita la fiecare dintre ei), dar in nici un caz dragoste. Dragostea implica, in primul rand, egalitatea, intelegerea.”

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“You mean nonmonogamy?" she said, neutrally. "No, no, no." I was now so nervous that I was almost tearful. "It would be our own thing, not that! We'd have to really talk about it, down the road. Make rules. When we know each other better." I saw us sitting on the living room floor in front of her cozy fireplace, drawing up our bylaws. Old wounds would be tenderly revealed, kinks admitted; there would be laughing and crying and pauses for self-regulation. Then, given all this information (and in the context of Harris and Sam), we would know what sort of specific, customized relationship was right for the two of us. And it could change! As we changed! I didn't say any of this, but I thought about it while she kissed me. Frankly, I was proud that I'd said anything at all and that it had gone so well— apparently, based on this kiss.”

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“Mr. Godfrey Nickleby: a worthy gentleman, who, taking it into his head rather late in life that he must get married, and not being young enough or rich enough to aspire to the hand of a lady of fortune, had wedded an old flame out of mere attachment, who in her turn had taken him for the same reason. Thus two people who cannot afford to play cards for money, sometimes sit down to a quiet game for love.”

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Book:Nicholas Nickleby
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