Home / Quotes / Quote by Ross W. Greene

Quote by Ross W. Greene

“A lot of parents aren't exactly sure how to go about solving a problem with a kid in a way that's mutually satisfactory - doing that with their child feels very foreign to a lot of people. It probably explains why so many parents tell me their kids don't listen to them and why so many kids tell me that they don't feel heard.”

Author

Ross W. Greene

Ross W. Greene is a renowned psychologist and author, known for his contributions to the field of child and adolescent behavior issues. His books, 'The Lost Boy: How to Understand and Help the Challenging Child' and 'Social Emotional Learning: How to Help All Children Succeed in School and Life,' have had a profound impact on educators and parents. more

“The vast majority of things parents and kids get in conflict over are highly predictable. We're disagreeing about the same expectations the kid is having difficulty meeting every hour, every day, every week. Because it's predictable, we can have these conversations proactively. That is very hard for people.”

People Hard Kids Parent Hours Week Conversation Conflict Expectations Difficulty Majority Meetings Predictable

Author:Ross W. Greene

“Parents are much more likely to be attuned to what they don't like than they are to the expectations that the kid is having difficulty meeting.”

Kids Parent Expectations Difficulty Meetings

Author:Ross W. Greene

“Challenging behavior is just a signal, the fever, the means by which the kid is communicating that he or she is having difficulty meeting an expectation.”

Mean Kids Challenges Behavior Expectations Difficulty Meetings Communicate Signals Fever

Author:Ross W. Greene

“Everybody is talking about the behavior. Behaviors float downstream to us. We need to paddle upstream. The problems that are causing the behaviors, that's what's waiting for us. It's a crucial paradigm shift.”

Needs Problem Waiting Talking Behavior Crucial Floats Paradigm Paradigm Shift

Author:Ross W. Greene

Quote by Ross W. Greene

Author

You May Also Like