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“Hoping a situation will change keeps you at a distance from your true feelings-sadness, anger, fear. Each of these feelings is best appreciated up close. Feel them deeply, and they will cease to bother you. Hope they'll go away, and they'll bother you all day.”

Quote by Gay Hendricks

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Gay Hendricks is a writer born in 1945. His works primarily focus on personal growth and spiritual development, which have been well-received by readers. more

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