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“Service that is given with little or no thought of personal advantage is an ideal to pursue for a lifetime.”

Quote by Dallin H. Oaks

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Dallin H. Oaks is an American author recognized for his contributions to religious and legal literature. Born on August 12, 1932, Oaks has penned numerous books and articles on subjects ranging from constitutional law to religious ethics. His work has been influential in both academic and religious communities. more

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