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“If I had been armed with a feminist understanding that no girl deserves to be called a slut, perhaps I would have fought back by reporting the harassment to my school's headmistress or another school authority, or at least I might have had the strength to tell of the name-callers on my own. But at the time, all I knew was that if I avoided eye contact, it was a hell of a lot easier to get through my days.”

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Slut!: Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputation

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Leora Tanenbaum
Leora Tanenbaum

Leora Tanenbaum, born in 1969, is an accomplished author whose works span across science fiction, fantasy, and literary fiction. Known for her unique narrative style and profound insights into complex themes, Tanenbaum has made a significant impact in the literary world. more

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