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“પ્રિય લોકો પરફેક્ટ હોય એવો આગ્રહ છોડી દેવો. કારણકે કોઈના પરફેક્ટ બનવાની પ્રતીક્ષા કરતાં રહીશું, તો એમને ક્યારેય ચાહી નહીં શકીએ. આપણે ક્યારેય કોઈને ટુકડાઓમાં નથી ચાહી શક્તા. એમની સિલેક્ટેડ લાક્ષણિકતાઓને પ્રેમ કરીએ, અને અપ્રિય બાબતોને ધિક્કારીએ, એવું શક્ય નથી બનતું. પ્રિયજનને એમની અપૂર્ણતાઓ સાથે સ્વીકારી લેવા પડે છે. એમની અણગમતી બાજુઓને એમના વ્યક્તિત્વનો એક ભાગ ગણીને સ્વીકારી લેવી પડે છે. મોટાભાગે આપણી પાસે બે જ વિકલ્પો હોય છે, પ્રિય વ્યક્તિને કાં તો છોડી દેવી પડે છે, ને કાં તો એની અપૂર્ણતા સાથે સ્વીકારી લેવી પડે છે. કોઈ બદલાઈ એવી શરતે કે એવી આશામાં, ક્યારેય કોઈને ચાહી નથી શકાતા. જેના પરફેક્ટ બનવાની પ્રતીક્ષા કે જેને પરફેક્ટ બનાવવાનો પ્રયત્ન કરીએ છીએ, એને પામી નથી શક્તા.”

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નિમિત્ત માત્ર : પ્રજ્ઞા અને પ્રતીતિની વાતો

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