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“Although, in principle, the psychoanalytical theory of borderlines is not punitive, in practice 'borderline' is almost always used to indicate that the patient is hostile, demanding, unpleasant, manipulative, attention-seeking, and prone to regression and dependency if admitted to hospital; in other words patient is a witch by Malleus Maleficarum criteria. The term 'borderline' functions to rationalize sadistic counter-transference, and to legitimize rejecting triaging decisions within the health-care system. Actually, most of the time, in my experience, the splitting is coming from the staff, not the patient, and it is the mental-health professionals who are using projection and denial. This is an example of 'blaming the victim,' which is a fundamental borderline psychodynamic.”

DenialBiasProjectionSplittingMental Health StigmaBorderline Personality DisorderVictim BlamingMental Illness StigmaPersonality DisorderMental Illness DiscriminationPsychological DefenceBlame The Victim
Book:Satanic Ritual Abuse: Principles of Treatment
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“The primary driver to pathological dissociation is attachment disorganization in early life: when that is followed by severe and repeated trauma, then a major disorder of structural dissociation is created (Lyons-Ruth, Dutra, Schuder, & Bianchi, 2006).”

Mental IllnessAttachmentDissociative Identity DisorderDissociationChildhood TraumaBorderline Personality DisorderDissociative DisordersStructural Dissociation
Book:Neurobiology and Treatment of Traumatic Dissociation: Towards an Embodied Self
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“[Adult children of a BPD parent] may seem old before their time or like an old soul (and probably were that way as children too.) They may easily assume the role of fixer and nurturer. They're the ones friends lean on, the ones to whom people tell their problems. Helping others gives them a sense of purpose and worth.”

ListenersBorderline Personality DisorderOld SoulProblem SolversBpdAdult ChildrenOld SoulsNurturers
Book:Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem
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“Parentified children learn to take responsibility for themselves and others early on. They tend to fade into the woodwork and let others take center stage. This extends into adulthood - adult children may put others' needs before their own. They may have difficulty accepting care and attention.”

ResponsibilityBorderline Personality DisorderBpdAdult ChildrenHypervigilance
Book:Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem
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