“If someone tells you that you should have gotten over something or someone by now, don’t believe it. Believing there’s some appropriate time frame for getting over something is just one more way to keep yourself stuck. But neither should you believe that there’s nothing you can do to enable yourself to let go, or that it just takes time.” FeelingsGrowingGrievingToxic Positivity Book:Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most Source: Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most