“Because in the great majority of cases, the reason the other person is not listening to you is not because they are stubborn, but because they don’t feel heard. In other words, they aren’t listening to you for the same reason you aren’t listening to them: they think you are slow or stubborn. So they repeat themselves, find new ways to say things, talk more loudly, and so forth.” Understanding OthersArgumentsConversationsExpressing YourselfDifficult Conversations Book:Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most Source: Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most