“When people are vulnerable to control, they feel that they are selfish for deciding what to do with their own property. In reality, deciding for ourselves is the only way we can ever have true love, for then we are giving freely.” ChoicesSelfishVulnerableDecisionsVulnerabilityControlControlling OthersManipulative PeopleControlling People Book:Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future Source: Changes That Heal: How to Understand the Past to Ensure a Healthier Future
“Self-centered people often get angry when someone tells them no. Stan said yes out of fear that he would lose love and that other people would get angry at him. These false motives and others keep us from setting boundaries:” BoundariesSelf CenteredLoss Of LovePassivitySubmissiveSelf CenterednessControlling ParentsBoundaries QuotesControlling OthersControlling PeopleFear Of AbandonmentSelf Centered PeopleBoundary IssuesConfrontationalSubmittingRule By FearBoundarylessSelf Centered Man Book:Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Source: Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life