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“Suffering from feelings of inner emptiness, some meditation practitioners may misunderstand and likewise be attracted to the Buddhist notion of ‘no-self,’ and mistakenly seek doctrinal validation for their feelings of emptiness.” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“The goal in meditation is not to exorcise the psyche of disturbing thoughts and emotions, nor to suppress them, but to hold them in non-reactive, friendly awareness. They may not necessarily disappear from the practitioner’s psyche, but through consistent observing and witnessing of them, they cease to trouble him or her.” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“When a wide variety of mental processes are treated with bare, non-judgmental attention, they are held in an open, spacious container. This enables the meditation practitioner to befriend his or her thoughts and emotions, no matter what they are, and reduces the likelihood of being tyrannized by an inordinately demanding superego” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“For students coming to meditation practice with faulty ego functioning, the enlightenment ideal may mistakenly represent ‘a purified state of complete and invulnerable self-sufficiency from which all badness has been expelled, the aim of all narcissistic strivings” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“Much of our reasoning about human life and other beings on this planet now rests on the theory of natural selection. Most educated people believe (at least vaguely) in the scientific principle that the living organisms on earth have evolved over billions of years from other organisms that were unlike them, and are now mostly extinct. When this story is told of humanity, it wholly eliminates the role of personal meaning and human intentions in the development of societies and the lives of individuals. The ‘master molecule’ of the gene, falsely endowed with an autonomous power, is most often used to explain personal desires, intentions, and actions. The term ‘gene’ or ‘adaptation’ has replaced intention, purpose, and meaning in most psychological accounts of the ways in which people thrive or fail to thrive in their everyday lives. All of our struggles—such as finding a mate or becoming a compassionate person—can now be recast in terms of their supposed ‘advantages’ of leaving the greatest number of offspring.” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“Dogen maintains that self and other are ultimately interdependent; the self does not exist prior to, or outside of, the other; we only have the possibility of experiencing self or other through relationship.” PsychologyBuddhism Book:Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy Source: Awakening and Insight: Zen Buddhism and Psychotherapy
“personal autonomy” Personal Autonomy Book:The Self-Esteem Trap: Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance Source: The Self-Esteem Trap: Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance
“What does it mean to feel "in control" of your life? What I mean by control is the ability to make a choice. Personal sovereignty means that you choose from what is available in order to be intentional about your life...When you feel in control of your life, you know yourself to be the author of your own actions and know that you always have choices.” KnowsFeelsMeanDoeActionOrderChoicesAbilityAvailableYou ChooseSovereigntyKnow YourselfHeartlessControl Of Your LifeSovereignty Means Author:Polly Young-Eisendrath
“Metaphor is our mental root of imagination and language. Arnold Kozak offers fertile metaphors for growing your knowledge of the Buddhadharma. If you contemplate these brief stories, your emotional intelligence and mindfulness will develop effortlessly from the insights they provide.” IfsStoriesLanguageImaginationGrowingEmotionalOffersMindfulnessRootsMetaphorInsightContemplatingEmotional IntelligenceFertile Author:Polly Young-Eisendrath