“One out of three black men are in the criminal justice system in some form. Their despair is beginning to resonate through the entire culture; that is why suburban children want rap music.” MenWantChildrenFormCultureThreeBlackJusticeDespairRapCriminalsJustice SystemCriminal JusticeRap MusicCriminal Justice System Author:Robert Bly
“Every modern male has, lying at the bottom of his psyche, a large, primitive being covered with hair down to his feet. Making contact with this Wild Man is the step the Eighties male or the Nineties male has yet to take. That bucketing-out process has yet to begin in our contemporary culture.” MenLyingCultureProcessStepsFeetModernHairMalesBottomContemporaryContactCoveredPrimitiveEightyWild Man Book:Iron John: A Book about Men Source: Iron John: A Book about Men
“I use the phrase 'sibling society' to suggest a culture fundamentally without fathers, mothers, grandfathers, grandmothers, or ancestors. The thinking is horizontal.” ThinkingUseMotherCultureFatherPhrasesGrandmotherAncestorGrandfatherSiblingHorizontalFather Mother Author:Robert Bly
“All of those on the left, as I am, have always vastly preferred the democratic society over the hierarchical society and still do, but the democratic culture doesn't exist without highly informed citizens capable of thinking well, and if you have schools in which 40 percent of the people coming out of them cannot make change for a dollar, you don't have a democracy. You have a sibling society.” PeopleIfsThinkingWellsStillsSchoolCultureLeftDemocracyCitizensCapablePercentDollarsDemocraticComing OutSiblingDemocratic SocietyInformed Citizens Author:Robert Bly
“There are very few adults in our culture able to imagine any genuine life coming from the vertical plane - tradition, religion, or devotion.” AbleCultureImagineAdultsTraditionGenuineDevotionPlanesVerticalGenuine Life Author:Robert Bly
“If you want to know what it will be like when we are more deeply into the horizontal, simply go to one of the Indian casinos. The Native Americans, who stand for vertical thinking more than anyone else in our culture, have been setting up totally flat casinos for honkies.” IfsThinkingKnowsWantHas BeensCultureSettingSettingsIndianNativeFlatsNative AmericanCasinosVerticalHorizontal Author:Robert Bly
“Transcendence or detachment, leaving the body, pure love, lack of jealousy-that's the vision we are given in our culture, generally, when we think of the highest thing. . . . Another way to look at it is that the aim of the person is not to be detached, but to be more attached-to be attached to working; to be attached to making chairs or something that helps everyone; to be attached to beauty; to be attached to music.” ThinkingWayLooksPersonsHelpingBodyCultureGivenVisionPureHighestCommitmentAimLeavingChairsAnother WayTranscendenceDetachmentDetachedPure Love Author:Robert Bly
“We are living at an important and fruitful moment now, for it is clear to men that the images of adult manhood given by the popular culture are worn out; a man can no longer depend on them. By the time a man is thirty-five he knows that the images of the right man, the tough man, the true man which he received in high school do not work in life.” KnowsMenLifeImportantMomentsSchoolCultureGivenClearFiveDependsHigh SchoolAdultsToughThirtyWornManhoodPopular CultureWorn OutTrue ManRight ManTough Man Book:Iron John: A Book about Men Source: Iron John: A Book about Men
