“The only way we can handle change around us is to know what is changeless about ourselves”
“Highly effective people tend to be proactive. They decide to find a better job or to have better health, rather than of responding to whatever curves life throws at them.”
“You have to water the flowers you want to grow.”
Source: The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness
“The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty. And that can become a vicious, downward cycle. Because suddenly, if everyone else is cheating, you feel a need to cheat, too.”
“"If I make deposits into an Emotional Bank Account with you through courtesy, kindness, honesty, and keeping my commitments to you, I build up a reserve. Your trust toward me becomes higher, and I can call upon that trust many times if I need to. I can even make mistakes and that trust level, that emotional reserve, will compensate for it. My communication may not be clear, but you'll get my meaning anyway. You won't make me "an offender for a word." When the trust account is high, communication is easy, instant, and effective."”
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Interactive Edition
“A mission statement is not something you write overnight... But fundamentally, your mission statement becomes your constitution, the solid expression of your vision and values. It becomes the criterion by which you measure everything else in your life.”
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
“If you want small changes in your life, work on your attitude. But if you want big and primary changes, work on your paradigm.”
“Stop setting goals. Goals are pure fantasy unless you have a specific plan to achieve them.”
“Synergy is better than my way or your way. It's our way.”
Source: The 3rd Alternative: Solving Life's Most Difficult Problems
“The deepest desire of the human spirit is to be acknowledged.”
“Moral authority comes from following universal and timeless principles like honesty, integrity, treating people with respect.”
“Synergy is what happens when one plus one equals ten or a hundred or even a thousand! It's the profound result when two or more respectful human beings determine to go beyond their preconceived ideas to meet a great challenge.”
“Inevitably, anytime we are too vulnerable we feel the need to protect ourselves from further wounds. So we resort to sarcasm, cutting humor, criticism - anything that will keep from exposing the tenderness within. Each partner tends to wait on the initiative of the other for love, only to be disappointed but also confirmed as to the rightness of the accusations made.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“The key to motivation is motive.”
Source: First Things First
“It's not only a matter of when to do things, but whether or not to do them at all.”
Source: First Things First
“What does it matter how much we do if what we're doing isn't what matters most?”
Source: First Things First
“A personal mission statement becomes the DNA for every other decision we make.”
Source: First Things First
“An empowering mission statement has to become a living document, part of our very nature, so that the criteria we've put into it are also in us, in the way we live our lives day by day.”
Source: First Things First Every Day: Daily Reflections- Because Where You're Headed Is More Important Than How Fast You Get There
“Creating and integrating an empowering personal mission statement is one of the most important investments we can make.”
Source: First Things First Every Day: Daily Reflections- Because Where You're Headed Is More Important Than How Fast You Get There
“Petty things become unimportant when people are impassioned about a purpose higher than self.”
Source: First Things First
“Self-awareness involves deep personal honesty. It comes from asking and answering hard questions.”
Source: First Things First
“Self-awareness is our capacity to stand apart from ourselves and examine our thinking, our motives, our history, our scripts, our actions, and our habits and tendencies.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“Consult the wisdom of your heart as well as your mind.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“What difference would a clear vision of my principles, values, and ultimate objectives make in the way I spend my time?”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“Whenever you experience stress of any kind, look into yourself and ask, In what way am I compromising my innermost values in this situation?”
“Make time for planning: Wars are won in the general's tent.”
“As we create synergy among the roles of our lives, there's more of us to put into the time we have.”
Source: First Things First
“Balance isn't either/or; it's 'and'.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“Success in one role can't justify failure in another.”
Source: First Things First
“More essential than working on attitudes and behaviors is examining the paradigms out of which those attitudes and behaviors flow.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“We can never really change someone; people must change themselves.”
Source: First Things First
“If we know how to listen to our own heart, we can listen to the hearts of others.”
“There is so much we can do to render service, to make a difference in the world - no matter how large or small our circle of influence.”
Source: First Things First Every Day: Daily Reflections- Because Where You're Headed Is More Important Than How Fast You Get There
“Our lives are the results of our choices. To blame and accuse other people, the environment, or other extrinsic factors is to choose to empower those things to control us.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“It takes courage to realize that you are greater than your moods, greater than your thoughts, and that you can control your moods and thoughts.”
Source: First Things First
“The best way to develop courage is to set a goal and achieve it, make a promise and keep it.”
Source: First Things First
“We exhaust ourselves more from the tension and the consequences of internal disharmony than from hard, unremitting work.”
“Make specific appointments with yourself to work on goals, and treat an appointment with yourself as you'd treat an appointment with anybody else.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time
“To set and work toward any goal is an act of courage.”
Source: First Things First
“The key to acting with integrity is to simply stop playing the game.”
Source: First Things First Every Day: Daily Reflections- Because Where You're Headed Is More Important Than How Fast You Get There
“The great apparent dichotomy is that the more we give, the more we get.”
Source: First Things First
“The problems in life come when we're sowing one thing and expecting to reap something entirely different.”
Source: First Things First
“We can act instead of being acted upon.”
Source: First Things First
“When we listen with the intent to understand others, rather than with the intent to reply, we begin true communication and relationship building. Opportunities to then speak openly and to be understood come much more naturally and easily.”
Source: The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness
“Conscience connects us with the wisdom of the ages and the wisdom of the heart.”
Source: First Things First
“You can't be successful with other people if you haven't paid the price of success with yourself.”
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Interactive Edition
“Time management is a misnomer, the challenge is to manage ourselves.”
“Don't cheat people of their growth. Empower them to solve problems and generate ideas. Watch them grow!”
“True independence of character empowers us to act rather than be acted upon.”
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Interactive Edition
“I believe that correct principles are natural laws, and that God, the Creator and Father of us all, is the source of them, and also the source of our conscience. I believe that to the degree people live by this inspired conscience, they will grow to fulfill their natures; to the degree that they do not, they will not rise above the animal plane.”
Source: The Stephen R. Covey Interactive Reader - 4 Books in 1: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, First Things First, and the Best of the Most Renowned Leadership Teacher of our Time