“I'd never call myself a feminist, and that the world doesn't need male feminists.” Quote by Stephen Marche
“To me, there's two definitions of feminism. One is that you believe that women are equal human beings; that's not really a philosophy, it's just obvious. And the other is that you're actually fighting for women: you're promoting women and working towards the betterment of women.” BelieveHumansTwoPhilosophyFightingHuman BeingsFeminismEqualDefinitionsObviousPromotingBetterment Author:Stephen Marche
“I don't really mind it when Trudeau calls himself a feminist because, you know, he did the half-female cabinet; that's something to be proud of. On the other hand, when you look at that recent Russian spousal abuse law or attacks on abortion in the U.S, you have to say that's a human rights issue, and feminism is just human rights.” KnowsMindHumansLooksHandsLawHalfIssuesRightsFeminismProudFemaleAbuseHuman RightsFeministAbortionBe ProudCabinets Author:Stephen Marche
“I cannot imagine why a woman would ever call herself anything but a feminist. But a man calling himself a feminist, what does that mean? The answer is he wants to be taken as a good guy. Your choice is between saying you're a feminist and raising a flag at a "Take Back the Night" rally and being a men's rights activist, which is basically the only two ways men have of talking about gender right now, I mean that's just ridiculous. That's just two extremes that are totally useless.” MenWayWantMeanDoeTwoNightGuyChoicesAnswersTalkingTakenRightsImagineCallingRight NowFeministExtremesGenderRidiculousUselessActivistFlagsTwo WaysGood GuyTwo Extremes Author:Stephen Marche
“The economy is changing everything. And men need to deal with that. Our response to it has been rage, stupidity and conscious avoidance of dealing with what the reality of being a man might be outside of empty concepts from ancient history.” MenNeedsHas BeensRealityMightDealsEconomyConsciousConceptsEmptyResponseAncientStupidityRageAvoidanceAncient HistoryChanging Everything Author:Stephen Marche
“Men are not taking women's job, which are good jobs. Being a nurse is an excellent job.” MenJobsExcellentNurseGood Job Author:Stephen Marche
“Men who define themselves as breadwinners are going to have to leave the traditional iconography of masculinity behind if they want to be breadwinners.” IfsMenWantBehindsTraditionalMasculinityIconographyBreadwinner Author:Stephen Marche
“The division [between how much housework men and women do] is declining across all advanced economies - not for the reasons that people want, which is men are doing more, but because women are doing less of it, but even then, the trend is getting towards equality.” PeopleMenWantReasonEconomyMen And WomenDivisionTrendsHousework Author:Stephen Marche
“One [paradox] is that pornography follows in that wake of women's liberation. The first instances of hard-core pornography were in late 18th-century in France, "the Golden Age of Women." The next wave in the 20th century comes from Sweden, one of the first countries where women voted. Then Germany, again, at the forefront of progress. Then America in the '80s, when women were closing the pay gap. And Japan, same thing.” FirstsCountryHardAgeAmericaNextPayProgressCenturyLateWaveCoreGoldenInstanceFranceLiberationGermanyJapanParadoxGaps20th Century80sPornographyClosingSwedenGolden Age18th CenturyHard CorePay Gap Author:Stephen Marche
“As you get closer to equality, you get more pornography. True patriarchal societies like Saudi Arabia do not allow pornography because women are not allowed to turn their bodies into a commodity; women are chattel.” BodyTurnsCommodityPornographyArabiaSaudi ArabiaSaudisPatriarchal Society Author:Stephen Marche
“The easier sex gets, the less intimate every sexual act gets. In the Victorian period, a kiss was like a f - k. And now, you know, when actual sexual acts become so easy, their intimacy declines and their meaning declines.” KnowsSexEasyPeriodsEasierKissingIntimacyIntimateDeclineVictorian Author:Stephen Marche