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“Much is made of the accelerating brutality of young people's crimes, but rarely does our concern for dangerous children translateinto concern for children in danger. We fail to make the connection between the use of force on children themselves, and violent antisocial behavior, or the connection between watching father batter mother and the child deducing a link between violence and masculinity.”

Quote by Letty Cottin Pogrebin

Book:Family politics: love and power on an intimate frontier
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Family politics: love and power on an intimate frontier

This book delves into the complex emotional and political landscape of family life, examining how love and power shape the interactions and decisions of individuals within their family structures. more

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Letty Cottin Pogrebin
Letty Cottin Pogrebin

Letty Cottin Pogrebin is an American author recognized for her contributions to feminism and Jewish culture. Born on June 9, 1939, she has been a significant figure in the feminist movement through her writing and activism. Pogrebin's works often delve into the intersection of gender, religion, and identity, providing valuable insights into contemporary life. more

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