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“It may feel as though the fixed mindset gave you your ambition, your edge, your individuality. Maybe you fear you'll become a bland cog in the wheel just like everyone else. Ordinary. But opening yourself up to growth makes you more yourself, not less.”

Quote by Carol S. Dweck

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Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

This book challenges traditional beliefs about intelligence and talent, arguing that mindset plays a crucial role in determining one's potential and success. The author presents research and case studies to illustrate the power of adopting a growth mindset and provides practical strategies for fostering this mindset in oneself and others. more

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Carol S. Dweck
Carol S. Dweck

Carol S. Dweck is a renowned psychologist known for her research on the concept of growth mindset. Her work has revealed the impact of beliefs about ability on learning, work, and life. more

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