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“Sometimes I hear the world discussed as the realm of men. This is not my experience. I have watched men fall to the ground like leaves. They were swept up as memories, and burned. History owns them. These men were petrified in both senses of the word: paralyzed and turned to stone. Their refusal to express feeling killed them. Anachronistic men. Those poor, poor boys.”

Quote by Antonella Gambotto-Burke

Book:The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide

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The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide

This memoir delves into the author's personal experiences and reflections on the act of suicide, offering an intimate look at the emotional and psychological factors involved. more

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Antonella Gambotto-Burke

Antonella Gambotto-Burke is an Italian-born author known for her works in history, culture, and cuisine. Born in September 1965, her writing style is characterized by in-depth research and vivid storytelling. more

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Source: The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide

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Book:Selections from the writings and speeches of William Lloyd Garrison: With an appendix ...

Source: Selections from the writings and speeches of William Lloyd Garrison: With an appendix ...

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