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News of the World

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Paulette Jiles
Paulette Jiles

Paulette Jiles is an American poet born on April 4, 1943. Her works are known for their profound social commentary and rich emotional expression, which have won her widespread acclaim. more

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“When a man gets serious about changing he has to be willing to look at the choices he is making every day, from the most trivial to the most significant. He has to accept that no one and nothing other than him is determining what he does. If he backslides into drinking, if he returns to abusive behavior, if he cheats on his partner, it's because that's what he decided to do. In short: His change depends on his willingness to accept complete responsibility for his own actions. He has to stop blaming them on you, on his addic tion, on his childhood, or on anything else.”