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“Terrified of being alone, yet afraid of intimacy, we experience widespread feelings of emptiness, of disconnection, of the unreality of self. And here the computer, a companion without emotional demands, offers a compromise. You can be a loner, but never alone. You can interact, but need never feel vulnerable to another person.”

Quote by Sherry Turkle

Book:The Second Self: Computers and the Human Spirit

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The Second Self: Computers and the Human Spirit

This book delves into the ways in which computers have become an integral part of human life, examining their influence on our thoughts, emotions, and social interactions. more

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Sherry Turkle is a professor of the Social Studies of Science and Technology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT). She is recognized for her research on the impact of technology on human relationships and society. more

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