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“The themes that exercised the minds of survivor movements and their allies within the health and welfare professions generated a political project: how to revolutionise medical and judicial approaches to injured adults and children, how to raise awareness so that other people didn’t have to suffer the same, and how to understand, and then challenge, offenders who so love what they do to children that they can and must shut their minds to the feelings of children who have put their trust in them. P4”

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Book:Stolen Voices: The People and Politics Behind the Campaign to Discredit Childhood Testimony
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Stolen Voices: The People and Politics Behind the Campaign to Discredit Childhood Testimony

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Beatrix Campbell
Beatrix Campbell

Beatrix Campbell is an accomplished writer, born on February 3, 1947. Her works span a variety of fields, including history, culture, and social commentary. more

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