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“When a woman chooses to marry, she puts her life into his hands. When she chooses not to marry, she must be ready to put her life into her own hands. These quarrels are petty and tiresome, I grant you that, but there is something to be learned in them. They have a use.”

Quote by Cynthia Voigt

Work

The Callender Papers

This book presents a compilation of personal correspondence and historical documents from the Callender family, offering a glimpse into their lives and the broader historical context of their era. more

Author

Cynthia Voigt
Cynthia Voigt

Cynthia Voigt is an American author renowned for her children's literature. Born on February 25, 1942, she has written numerous award-winning works since the 1970s, which are beloved by readers of all ages. more

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