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Honor's Splendour

Honor's Splendour is a fictional narrative that delves into the complexities of honor and its manifestation in the lives of its characters. Set in a vividly realized world, the story weaves together elements of tradition, power struggles, and the pursuit of glory. more

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Julie Garwood
Julie Garwood

Julie Garwood, born in 1944 in the United States, is a renowned American author. Known for her historical and romance novels, her works have won the hearts of many readers. Garwood's novels are characterized by their rich historical background and profound character development, often blending elements of love, adventure, and history. more

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“ஆண் ஆதியில் இருந்தே வெல்வதற்குத்தான் முயன்றிருக்கிறான். பெண் ஆதியில் இருந்தே நம்புவதற்குத்தான் ஆசைப்பட்டிருக்கிறாள்.”

“In these pages, we keep returning to one foundational principle: providing the possibility of emotional/relational safety for our people, be they patients, children, partners, friends or strangers. We are able to make this offer when they are experiencing their own neuroception of safety, not continuously, but as the baseline to which we return after our system has adaptively moved into sympathetic arousal or dorsal withdrawal in response to inner and outer conditions. When we neuroceive safety, we humans automatically begin to open into vulnerability, and the movement of our "inherent treatment plan" (Sills, 2010) has a greater probability of coming forward. When we have a neuroception of threat, we adaptively tighten down at many levels, from physical tension to activation of the protective skills we have learned over a lifetime (Levine, 2010). In that state, our innate healing path will often wisely stay hidden until more favorable conditions arrive.”

“Don’t blame yourself. You believed what he told you, because you trusted him. You’re a warm, open, trusting person. And you’re trustworthy. Trustworthy people like us always get screwed, because we expect other people to be like us. Don’t let his bad behavior make you question yourself.”

“Depression always brings to mind the possibility that the person's SEEKING system may have been turned off ... Our mutual trust in his system's wisdom kept us from being swept away by the despair he felt. We began to ask, "what is this depression, this one who is so still, wanting to tell us?" Then we waited. We stayed with the one who felt dead inside, acknowledging his protective value even when though we had no cognitive awareness of who and what he was sheltering.”

“If we trust that our inner world knows what is needed next, one outcome isn't preferable to another. It is so easy for us to want healing to pursue a more linear path: Something arises and it would be best if we could stay with that. There can be a sense of disappointment in therapist, patient, or both if the sensation doesn't return. This might be perceived as a lack in our patient's ability to maintain contact, a reflection of our inadequacy of a therapist, or simply discomfort that the therapy feels stuck.”