“I quickly found the dating/hookup app to be a dangerous addition to my iPhone. A friend recommended it after shit hit the fan with my boyfriend. With enough breakups under my belt, I knew that the healthiest remedy was a solid rebound fuck or two. Tinder made it easy- too easy. Suddenly, I could sit in traffic, on the toilet, or in line at the DMV and carelessly swipe, swipe, swipe my way to dick-on-delivery. Tinder selections are based on proximity via smart phones, so there are tons of tourists, travelers, and young professionals on business trips swiping through new hunting grounds. Its loose, easy-come-easy-go method made hookups as convenient as picking up lunch. Tinder’s nonchalance went both ways. We had nothing to lose.” FeminismDatingSocial MediaSexualityMasculinityFeminist QuotesSex QuotesMaggie Young QuotesTinderModern RomanceThe Anal RenaissanceAnalHookupMillennial DatingProstate PhobiaMillennial Sex Author:Maggie Young
“Anal sex was my least favorite bedroom activity. Even through half a bottle of lube, the whole charade felt like pooping backwards. It was a negotiation token- something I begrudgingly did in exchange for backrubs and switching the television from football to Sex in the City. Anal sex was something I tolerated in order to be a cool girlfriend, because it was and still is common knowledge that that men love shoving their dicks in buttholes. Male buttholes, however, had their own rules and regulations. Everyone knew that men who allowed rectal access were gay. I didn’t question it. I didn’t analyze it. I only knew to treat the male asshole as if it had a grenade buried inside of it that could ignite a deadly explosion of anger, trauma, and sexual confusion.” SexFeminismSexualitySex QuotesMaggie Young QuotesSex PositiveThe Anal RenaissanceAnalSexual Progressiveness Author:Maggie Young
“In my early twenties, I treated sex like a bartering system, trading giving for receiving, feeling victorious when I’d received more pleasure, and swindled when I’d given more. As I matured, sex became a bond that was only gratifying when both parties were equally satisfied.” Sex QuotesSexuality QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex Positive FeminismMillennialMillennial AuthorsModern RomanceThe Anal RenaissanceModern DatingMillennial QuotesMillennial WritersMillennial MatingMillennial DatingMillennial Feminist Author:Maggie Young
“It only takes a tenth grade course on evolution to know that the prostate g-spot’s existence alone is proof that ass play has been done for a very, very long time.” FeminismSexuality QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex Positive FeminismThe Anal RenaissanceMillennial QuotesMillennial WritersMillennial MatingFeminist Sexuality Author:Maggie Young
“I’ve always had a very binge and then cleanse approach to casual sex for that very reason. We long for an intimate connection, but that longing makes us feel vulnerable. Therefore, we guard our hearts for self-preservation, which barricades that intimacy we are longing for.” Maggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex Positive FeminismMillennial AuthorsThe Anal RenaissanceCasual SexCasual Sex QuotesMillennial Sexuality Author:Maggie Young
“Adolescence is never graceful or beautiful. Our first steps are wobbly, full of stumbles and spills. Our first words are mispronounced and barely comprehendible. Our first kisses are sloppy and wet. The process of breaking sexual thresholds is far from sexy. It will be a long time until being a penetrator outgrows the feel of a grade school science experiment where I fill my paper mache volcano with vinegar and baking soda, giggling and high-fiving my lab partner once it explodes.” FeminismGenderFeminist QuotesSex QuotesSexuality QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungThe Anal RenaissanceSex Positive QuotesFeminism SexSexual Gender Roles Author:Maggie Young
“The prostate might as well have been a mythological creature like a unicorn or Leprechaun only acknowledged through whispery giggles among women brunching with their gay friends.” SexFeminismSexualityMasculinityMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex PositiveThe Anal RenaissanceSexual ProgressivenessProstate PhobiaButt Stuff Author:Maggie Young
“The idea of giving a man a rim job provoked the squeamishness I felt at thirteen when I accidentally stumbled upon my first porn, Women Who Love Big White Cocks. I was repulsed that a woman would put her mouth on a man’s penis. After all, that’s where he pees. I got older. I discovered my sexuality and on countless occasions, put my mouth where a boy peed. He put his mouth where I peed, put his fingers where I pooped, put where he peed where I pooped, and we swapped saliva the entire time. Men forgot that the female breasts that ignited their hard-ons fed them as infants. We didn’t realize that although the meaning changed, our “dirty places” remained the same.” FeministSexualityFeminist QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungProstateSex Positive FeminismThe Anal RenaissanceMillennial MatingSexual ProgressivenessProstate Phobia Author:Maggie Young
“We didn’t realize that although the meaning changed, our “dirty places” remained the same.” FeministSexualityFeminist QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex Positive FeminismThe Anal RenaissanceMillennial MatingProstate Phobia Author:Maggie Young
“Casual sex is a very sad cat and mouse game. The man is entrapped in his role as the sex-driven predator constantly on the hunt for new conquests, while the woman is the prey that must find her perfect combination of sexual allure and virtue, with the sexual allure being what attracts him and virtue what keeps him.” Maggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex Positive FeminismThe Anal RenaissanceSexuality FunnyMillennial MatingSexual ProgressivenessProstate Phobia Author:Maggie Young
“Dehumanization always follows penetration.” SexualityMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungThe Anal RenaissanceMillennial MatingMillennial Dating Author:Maggie Young
“Even in my most intimate moments with a man, I am alone.” FeminismFeminist QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungThe Anal RenaissanceSexual Progressiveness Author:Maggie Young
“As a woman, I’ve had to choose between ignoring the full effect of my carnal instincts and exploring them with a man who will abandon me. Both result in emotional isolation. It wasn’t until tapping into the forbidden grounds of the male anatomy that I realized that men are locked in their own prison. Their vulnerability frightens them as much as my confidence.” FeminismFeminist QuotesMaggie Young QuotesMaggie YoungSex PositiveThe Anal RenaissanceSexual Progressiveness Author:Maggie Young