“One of the first things a relationship therapist learns is that couples argue to burn up energy that could be used for something else. In fact, arguments often serve the purpose of using up energy, so that the couple does not have to take the courageous, creative leap into an unknown they fear. Arguing serves the function of being a zone of familiarity into which you can retreat when you are afraid of making a creative breakthrough.” FirstsDoeFactsUsedPurposeEnergyMarriageCreativeCoupleArgumentFunctionArguingZoneCourageousLeapRetreatBreakthroughFamiliarityTherapists Author:Gay Hendricks
“Most couples have not had hundreds of arguments; they've had the same argument hundreds of times.” RelationshipCoupleArgument Author:Gay Hendricks
“It's been said a thousand ways by hundreds of different people through the years, but is still as true as ever. If mamma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. Yellow H. Most couples have not had hundreds of arguments; they've had the same argument hundreds of times.” PeopleIfsWayYearsSaidStillsDifferentCoupleThousandArgumentYellowDifferent PeoplesFunny RelationshipThrough The Years Author:Gay Hendricks