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“A wife should always be few feet behind her husband. If he is an MA you should be a BA.If he is 5'4'tall you shouldn't be more than 5'3'tall. If he is earning five hundred rupees you should never earn more than four hundred and ninety nine rupees.That's the only rule to follow if you want a happy marriage...No partnership can ever be equal.It will always be unequal, but take care it is unequal in favor of the husband. If the scales tilt in your favor, God help you, both of you.”

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Shashi Deshpande
Shashi Deshpande

Shashi Deshpande is a prominent Indian novelist celebrated for her exploration of social issues and women's lives. Born in 1938, she has made significant contributions to Indian literature with her unique narrative style and insightful depiction of modern Indian society. more

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