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“Having a book is somewhat like having a baby, as many woman writers have observed before me: the conception, the long preparation, the wait, the growing heaviness (not of body in this case but of the spirit and the manuscript) toward the end, the initial delight at the sight of the product, fully formed and seemingly perfect, and then the usual postpartum depression. What will people whose opinion I care about, and those whose views I don't value but have weight in the world of reader, think of it?”

Quote by Doris Grumbach

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Extra Innings: A Memoir

This book is a personal narrative that combines the author's life story with their passion for baseball. The memoir delves into the author's journey, offering insights into their personal growth, challenges, and triumphs, all while intertwining the sport of baseball as a central theme. more

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Doris Grumbach
Doris Grumbach

Doris Grumbach is an American novelist born on July 12, 1918. Her works are known for their delicate emotional descriptions and profound insights into social issues. more

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