“Love in marriage should be the accomplishment of a beautiful dream, and not, as it too often is, the end.” LoveShouldEndsDreamBeautifulMarriageAccomplishmentOften IsBeautiful Dreams Author:Alphonse Karr
“People are falling in love because a certain man has a certain type of nose. People are falling in love with fragments! Nobody is bothered about the totality of the person -- and it is a vast thing. The nose does not count for much --- after two days you won't look at it at all. Or the color, or the shape, or the proportion of the body -- all these things are very minor. The real thing is the total functioning of the person, and that can be experienced only when you live together.” PeopleMenLooksPersonsDoeTwoRealBodyTogetherCertainFallLove IsMarriageColorTypeShapesFalling In LoveNosesProportionMinorsFragmentsBotheredReal ThingsTwo DaysTotality Author:Rajneesh
“Love, and love as deeply as possible. And if love itself becomes the marriage, that is another thing, altogether different. If love itself becomes such an intimacy that it is unbreakable, that is another thing, that is not a legal sanction. Legal sanctions are needed only because you are afraid. You know that your love is not enough; you need the legal support for it. You know perfectly well that you can escape or the woman can escape, hence you need the policeman to keep you together. But this is ugly, to need a policeman to keep you together. That's what marriage is!” IfsKnowsNeedsWellsDifferentEnoughTogetherLove IsMarriageSupportNeededAnd LoveUglyIntimacyPolicemenSanctionsUnbreakable Author:Rajneesh
“Marriage exists as an institution of exploitation, it is not togetherness. That is why no happiness comes out of it as a flowering. It cannot. Out of the roots of exploitation how can ecstasy be born?” BornMarriageRootsInstitutionsEcstasyExploitationTogethernessFlowering Author:Rajneesh
“Marriage is an institution that teaches a man regularity, frugality, temperance, forbearance and many other splendid virtues he would not need had he stayed single.” MenNeedsMarriageTeachVirtueInstitutionsSplendidTemperanceFrugalityRegularityForbearance Author:Rajneesh
“Marriage is not a natural phenomenon. It is artificial, arbitrary. And when it disappears you cannot do anything to bring it back. You can pretend, but that pretension makes you a hypocrite. And your pretension cannot deceive the woman, because she has known your love and the pretension cannot become the substitute. The only way is to separate - in friendship, because you have given each other so much.” WayGivenNaturalKnownMarriageDisappearPhenomenonSubstitutesArtificialDeceivingArbitraryHypocritePretensionNatural Phenomena Author:Rajneesh
“Marriage is a totally different phenomenon: it is the climax of love. Then it is good. I am not against marriage - I am for the REAL marriage. I am against the false, the pseudo, that exists. But it is an arrangement. It gives you a certain security, safety, occupation. It keeps you engaged. Otherwise, it gives you no enrichment, it gives you no nourishment.” GivingDifferentRealCertainMarriageSecuritySafetyEngagedPhenomenonOccupationArrangementsNourishmentPseudoClimaxEnrichment Author:Rajneesh
“One should marry only when one is wise enough. Marriage is not for young people. For young people is to fool around. Marriage is for those who have experienced life in many ways, who have seen all the colors, the whole spectrum of it, and are now ready to settle.” PeopleWayShouldEnoughWholeYoungMarriageWiseColorReadyFoolSettlingSpectrum Author:Rajneesh
“The first thing is love: love deeply. If you have been with a person for a few years, in deep love, and you have experienced all the joys and all the miseries, and still you decide to be with the person, then marriage is okay. Because marriage is only a legal arrangement, it cannot make anything more beautiful than it is. It can only make it ugly, it cannot beautify it. Once it is settled legally, once you start taking each other for granted, things will start going down rather than rising high.” IfsYearsFirstsPersonsHas BeensStillsBeautifulJoyMarriageOkayMiseryUglyGrantedRisingArrangementsDeep Love Author:Rajneesh
“The man who says his wife can't take a joke, forgets that she took him.” MenLifeFunnyForgetMarriageWifeHe ManJokesWeddingFunny MarriageFunny LoveLove And MarriageMarriage LoveWedding MarriageWedding SpeechWeddings And MarriageFunny WeddingSuccessful MarriageWeddings And LoveWedding LoveMarriage JokesHilarious LoveMarriage SpeechGreat WifeFunny Wedding SpeechShort MarriageShort Wedding Author:Oscar Wilde