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“The myth of self-sufficiency blinds us to the workings of other forces in family life. For families are not now, nor were they ever, the self-sufficient building blocks of society, exclusively responsible, praiseworthy, and blamable for their own destiny. They are deeply influenced by broad social and economic forces over which they have little control.”

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Book:All Our Children: The American Family Under Pressure

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All Our Children: The American Family Under Pressure

This book delves into the various pressures affecting American families, examining the social, economic, and psychological factors that shape family dynamics and the broader American family unit. more

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Kenneth Keniston

Kenneth Keniston, born on January 6, 1930, is an individual whose profession and category are unknown. His life story and contributions are not well-documented, and further research is needed to understand his background and achievements. more

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