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“The lie [of compulsory female heterosexuality] is many-layered. In Western tradition, one layer—the romantic—asserts that women are inevitably, even if rashly and tragically, drawn to men; that even when that attraction is suicidal (e. g, Tristan and Isolde, Kate Chopin’s ‘The Awakening’) it is still an organic imperative. In the tradition of the social sciences it asserts that primary love between the sexes is ‘normal,’ that women need men as social and economic protectors, for adult sexuality, and for psychological completion; that the heterosexually constituted family is the basic social unit; that women who do not attach their primary intensity to men must be, in functional terms, condemned to an even more devastating outsiderhood than their outsiderhood as women.”

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Adrienne Rich

Adrienne Rich was an American poet known for her profound poetry and feminist perspective. Her works explored themes such as gender, politics, and social justice, having a profound impact on contemporary poetry. more

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Feminism Compulsory Heterosexuality Lesbian Existence

Book:Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence

Source: Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence

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Gender Sexuality Homosexuality Compulsory Heterosexuality

Author:Steven Seidman

“From a higher vantage, the search for "the one" is seen to be quite absurd. Happiness cannot be outsourced. No other person has the power to complete what is already whole.”

Reality Romance Relationships Perception Transformation Beliefs Presence Self Realisation The One Higher Awareness

Book:Consciousness Rising

Source: Consciousness Rising

“There is no right or wrong way to recover. There is only the decision to do so.”