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“And what about this. When we’re thrust into it, we anxious folk can often deal with the present really rather well. It’s worth remembering this. As real, present-moment disasters occur, we invariably cope, and often better than others. The day after no sleep, I get on with things. At funerals, or when I’ve fallen off my bike, or the time I had to attend to my grandmother when she stopped breathing, or whenever a major work disaster plays out leaving my team in a panic, I’m a picture of calm. Dad used to call me “the tower of strength” in such moments. I also don’t tend to have a lot of bog-standard fear (as opposed to anxiety). In fact, I relish real, present-moment fear and actively seek it out.”

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First, We Make the Beast Beautiful: A New Story About Anxiety

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Sarah Wilson
Sarah Wilson

Sarah Wilson, born in 1974, is an accomplished journalist with over two decades of experience in the news industry. Known for her in-depth investigative reporting and unique perspective, she has made a significant impact with her work. more

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