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“Cilantro was briefly everywhere, creating miniflurries of conversation about whether or not you liked cilantro, which invariably included someone in the room saying, "I can't stand cilantro. It tastes like soap.”

Quote by Meg Wolitzer

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Meg Wolitzer
Meg Wolitzer

Meg Wolitzer is an American author known for her nuanced psychological portrayals and complex portrayals of family relationships. Her works often explore the lives, careers, and personal growth of modern women. Her notable works include 'The Interestings' and 'The Wife'. more

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“Non devo rendere conto a nessuno. Faccio il mio mestiere di madre e moglie. Do sicurezza. Do tutta me stessa senza fare calcoli, da anni, do il mio tempo, le mie viscere, la mia pazienza, la mia costanza, la mia diplomazia, la mia energia. Senza risparmiarmi. Avrò pure diritto a un piccolo momento di libertàAvrò pure diritto a un piccolo momento di libertà, no? A cambiare aria, planare, sentirmi leggera, alzarmi in volo con un battito d'ali alzarmi in volo con un battito d'ali. A decidere dove posarmi. Giuro che poi torno e richiudo la gabbia. E addirittura cinguetto.”