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“That is the worst of women. They always want one to be good. And if we are good, when they meet us, they don't love us at all. They like to find us quite irretrievably bad, and to leave us quite unattractively good.”

Quote by Oscar Wilde

Book:Lady Windermere's Fan
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Lady Windermere's Fan

Written by Oscar Wilde, Lady Windermere's Fan is a satirical play that delves into the lives and relationships of the upper class during the Victorian era. The story revolves around Lady Windermere and her husband, Sir Gerald, as they navigate the complexities of their social circle and the expectations placed upon them by society. more

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Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde, born on October 16, 1854, in Ireland, and died on November 30, 1900, was a renowned Irish writer, playwright, and poet. His works are known for their wit, satire, and unique style, with notable works including 'The Picture of Dorian Gray' and 'Lady Windermere's Fan'. more

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