“I think the biggest difference is that I've noticed Western parents seem much more concerned about their children's psyches, their self-esteem, whereas tough immigrant parents assume strength rather than fragility in their children and therefore behave completely differently.” ThinkingChildrenSelfSeemsParentDifferencesSelf EsteemToughConcernedAssumingWesternEsteemBehaveImmigrantsFragilityPsychImmigrant Parents Author:Amy Chua
“The fact is that Chinese parents can do things that would seem unimaginable-even legally actionable-to Westerners. Chinese mothers can say to their daughters, "Hey fatty-lose some weight." By contrast, Western parents have to tiptoe around the issue, talking in terms of "health" and never ever mentioning the f-word, and their kids still end up in therapy for eating disorders and negative self image.” StillsEndsSelfFactsSeemsKidsMotherParentTermCan DoLosesTalkingIssuesEatingDaughterNegativeWeightWesternHeyChineseTherapyDisorderContrastEating DisorderUnimaginableWesternersTiptoesFatty Book:Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Source: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
“I do think that maybe, even subconsciously, a lot of parents in the West are wondering, have we gone too far in the direction of coddling and protecting - you know, you see kids, sometimes that seem very rude and disrespectful. And the more important thing is they don't seem that happy.” ThinkingKnowsImportantSometimesSeemsKidsParentWonderGoneImportant ThingsWestRudeDisrespectful Author:Amy Chua
“Never complain or make excuses. If something seems unfair, just prove yourself by working twice as hard and being twice as good.” IfsHardSeemsProveExcuseComplainingUnfairProving Yourself Book:Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Source: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
“There are all these new books out there portraying Asian mothers as scheming, callous, overdriven people indifferent to their kids' true interests. For their part, many Chinese secretly believe that they care more about their children and are willing to sacrifice much more for them than Westerners, who seem perfectly content to let their children turn out badly. I think it's a misunderstanding on both sides. All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. The Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that.” PeopleThinkingWantBelieveChildrenBookIdeasDifferentSeemsCareKidsMotherTurnsParentSidesInterestSacrificeWillingChineseDecentIndifferentBoth SidesMisunderstandingAsianNew BooksPortrayingWesternersCallousDifferent Ideas Author:Amy Chua
