“When we are able to receive life's challenges as koans rather than problems, they become interesting and exciting, rather than ponderous and depressing.” ProblemAbleChallengesInterestingExcitingDepressing Author:Brenda Shoshanna
“The facts of our lives, when we are able to know them, will free us from the torment we are in. When we can bear reality thoroughly, suffering is over. Pain may exist, but it is only pain. Suffering is what we add to pain.” KnowsMayFactsRealityAblePainSufferingOur LivesBearsAddTormentPain Suffering Author:Brenda Shoshanna
“It is a mistake to expect all of our needs to be met by one person or in one relationship. Honor and be grateful for that which you receive. Don't become bitter and spend all your time focusing on that which the person is not able to provide.” NeedsPersonsAbleTimeMistakeRelationshipHonorMetsGratefulBitterBe Grateful Book:Zen and the Art of Falling in Love Source: Zen and the Art of Falling in Love