“The best defense against being hurt is to feel good about yourself and the way a person responds to you says more about them, than about you.” WayFeelsPersonsFeelingsHurtDefenseFeel GoodAbout YourselfBeing Hurt Author:Brenda Shoshanna
“When we sit, we open our own treasure house. Rather than do this, however, most of us first seek to find the treasures another person can provide. We calculate their value to us. When we approach relationships in this manner, we are coming as beggars, seeing the other as a source of supply. When we can enter a relationship with our treasure house already open, there is no end to the wonders we can find, both within and between ourselves and another.” FirstsPersonsEndsValuesHouseWonderRelationshipSeeingSourceApproachTreasureBeggar Book:Zen and the Art of Falling in Love Source: Zen and the Art of Falling in Love
“We are what we think about. When we stay fixed on one person, thought or situation, we get caught in the grip of self-centered thoughts. The more we give attention to that which is upsetting, the more strength it has to rule our lives.” ThinkingGivingPersonsSelfAttentionSituationOur LivesStrengthCaughtFixedUpsetSelf Centered Author:Brenda Shoshanna
“It is a mistake to expect all of our needs to be met by one person or in one relationship. Honor and be grateful for that which you receive. Don't become bitter and spend all your time focusing on that which the person is not able to provide.” NeedsPersonsAbleTimeMistakeRelationshipHonorMetsGratefulBitterBe Grateful Book:Zen and the Art of Falling in Love Source: Zen and the Art of Falling in Love
“Now today, moment by moment, realize that each person and event that happens is life for you. Life is not somewhere else. See how fully you can accept the life that presents itself to you now.” PersonsMomentsHappensTodayLife IsRealizingAcceptingEventsSomewhere Else Author:Brenda Shoshanna
