“Just how much renunciation of desire does society demand of us versus the degree of gratification it provides?” LoveDesireFreedomSocietySatisfactionCompromise Book:Against Love: A Polemic Source: Against Love: A Polemic
“As if all that weren't enough, factor in the whole tedious millenial saga of female virtue, modesty, shame, repression, male ineptitude...in short, a cruel combo of anatomical inheritance and sexual inhibition for the gal set; a nature-culture one-two punch, right to the female pleasure principle.” Sex Book:The Female Thing: Dirt, Sex, Envy, Vulnerability Source: The Female Thing: Dirt, Sex, Envy, Vulnerability
“La terapia es una nueva industria que debe su onerosa existencia a la idea festiva de que la ambivalencia puede curarse, la "madurez" es una adaptación a las condiciones del entorno y la indocilidad una forma de neurosis.” AmorSalud MentalTerapia Book:Against Love: A Polemic Source: Against Love: A Polemic
“On the question of women's sexual freedom or female independence, there are still issues that haven't been worked out. There's an aura of traditional gender roles that is not talked about that really permeates these conversations. There is this vacillation between a desire for independence and having the kinds of sexual freedom that men have and, on the other side, issues about female vulnerability and susceptibility to male aggression and violence. We need more honesty about the actual conditions in which sex is happening.” MenNeedsKindStillsDesireSexSidesRolesIssuesViolenceConditionsHavensHonestyConversationHappeningsFemaleIndependenceMalesGenderTraditionalVulnerabilityAggressionGender RolesAurasSusceptibilityVacillationAggression And Violence Author:Laura Kipnis
“I think that relations between professors and grad students can be messy and not entirely boundable. Part of the problem is that those boundaries become eroticized. I don't think people are quite so managerial with their sexuality. By suggesting that sex can be successfully regulated, we're imposing stupidity on the issue.” PeopleThinkingProblemSexIssuesStudentsRelationStupiditySexualityBoundariesProfessorsMessyImposingSuggestingGrad Author:Laura Kipnis
“It can't only be men who are the focus of assault prevention. Women should be too. To say that that puts the blame on victims to have to prevent their own assault is crap and has to be treated as crap.” MenShouldFocusVictimBlameTreatedCrapAssaultBe A ManPrevention Author:Laura Kipnis
“I don't think that the forms of feminism that are prevailing on campus are left wing. It's a conservative form of feminism in gender politics and there [isn't] anything particularly progressive about it. That's what is baffling. You've got conservatives acting like liberals touting free speech and due process.” ThinkingFormLeftProcessActingFeminismSpeechWingsConservativeGenderDuesProgressiveFree SpeechCampusPrevailingLeft WingDue Process Author:Laura Kipnis
“When sociobiologists start shitting in their backyards with dinner guests in the vicinity, maybe their arguments about innateness over culture will start seeming more persuasive.” CultureArgumentDinnerGuestsSeemingBackyardsPersuasiveVicinityDinner Guests Book:Against Love: A Polemic Source: Against Love: A Polemic
“So exiled have even basic questions of freedom become from the political vocabulary that they sound musty and ridiculous, and vulnerable to the ultimate badge of shame-'That's so 60's!'-the entire decade having been mocked so effectively that social protest seems outlandish and 'so last century,' just another style excess like love beads and Nehru jackets. No, rebellion won't pose a problem for this social order.” ProblemSeemsLastsPoliticalOrderSocialSoundLove IsCenturyStyleUltimateShameDecadesRidiculousVulnerableProtestRebellionExcessVocabularyJacketsLike LoveBadgesSocial OrderBeadsOutlandishNehru Author:Laura Kipnis