“Everyone needs things to look forward to — big things and small things, on good days and on bad days; things that will buoy our spirits and make us laugh and help us feel alive.” JoyLife Lessons Author:Sophie Blackall
“I usually draw in silence, but listen to music or public radio when I'm painting, after all the important decisions have been made.” Has BeensMadeImportantDecisionSilencePaintingDrawsRadioListening To MusicImportant DecisionsPublic Radio Author:Sophie Blackall
“I've illustrated many children's books and I feel awfully lucky to be able to do something I love so much, and yes, to be able to pay the rent, but there was a yearning to do something more grown up, and something where I didn't have to cater to anyone; I was just waiting for the material.” FeelsChildrenBookAbleWaitingPayMaterialsLuckyYearningChildren's Books Author:Sophie Blackall
“I toyed with making portraits based on people's discarded shopping lists found on the street, or old diaries bought on eBay, or other forms of borrowed stories. When I stumbled across the Missed Connections listings, I knew immediately I'd found it.” PeopleStoriesFormFoundStreetsConnectionsListsShoppingPortraitsDiariesBorrowedDiscardedEbayMissed Connections Author:Sophie Blackall
“The fellow who wrote the post about sharing a bear suit with a girl at a party saw my illustration and emailed me, which was kind of thrilling. He sent a photo taken on the night, and that was a dream-like experience... but even though I've seen the "real" bear suit, my image of it feels real to me, and his photo the interpretation.” FeelsKindRealDreamNightGirlPartyTakenSawsBearsFellowsSuitsPostsInterpretationThrillingIllustration Author:Sophie Blackall
“There's arrogance for you. I think all artists insert themselves into their subject matter.” ThinkingMatterArtistSubjectsArroganceSubject MatterInsert Author:Sophie Blackall
“I look for ambiguous messages to illustrate...I like some detail but not too much detail.” LooksToo MuchMessagesDetailsAmbiguous Author:Sophie Blackall
“I dismiss posts where one or other of the couple was wearing anything named by brand, or you know, baseball caps, or sweat pants, because I don't like drawing them, and I don't have to please anyone but myself.” KnowsCouplePleaseBaseballDrawingBrandsPostsSweatPantsCapsBaseball Caps Author:Sophie Blackall
“On the other hand, I'm drawn to top hats, and spats, and mustaches. I haven't read a Missed Connection yet with someone wearing a monocle, but rest assured I'll snap it up if I do.” IfsHandsHavensConnectionsHatsAssuredSnapsMustacheSpatsTop HatsMissed ConnectionsMonocles Author:Sophie Blackall
“Many messages are just thanking a stranger for a kindness...I love those ones, because I imagine everyone else reading them feels encouraged by such examples of humanity and generosity and tenderness. And if they encourage us to reach out to strangers more often, that's a good thing.” IfsFeelsHumanityReadingKindnessImagineExampleMessagesGood ThingsStrangerGenerosityReach OutTenderness Author:Sophie Blackall
“There are more than a few messages from lonely people wondering why they never find themselves described...I illustrated one, "How come no one ever misses me?" They kill me, those.” PeopleWonderMissingMessagesLonelyKill MeLonely PeopleMiss Me Author:Sophie Blackall
“There are also dozens and dozens of success stories; many couples have emailed me with their original posts. I love reading these stories, but confess I am not as interested in drawing them as the unfinished, elusive ones.” StoriesReadingCoupleOriginalsDrawingPostsDozenElusiveUnfinishedLove Of ReadingSuccess Stories Author:Sophie Blackall
“I glean a few times a week, and it's all about the subject line. I look for the lyrical, "Billowy Red Scarf Girl" or the funny, "Hipster Chick Who Passed Gas," the unintentionally funny, "Looking for the Hot Girl in Pink Dress," ones that immediately suggest images, "Furry Arms Under a Yellow Umbrella," or the plain odd, "Seeking Girl Who Bit Me Twice..." I don't think I've ever abandoned one... the images usually arrive fully formed in my head as soon as I read the message, and I decide whether to draw it or not.” ThinkingLooksGirlBitsLinesWeekSubjectsArmsMessagesDrawsRedHotDressesSeekingOddGasYellowAbandonedChicksUmbrellaLyricalHipsterScarvesFurryHot Girl Author:Sophie Blackall
“I have had people come to the site from all over the world. The US and Canada predominantly, but also Brazil and South Africa and Greece and Indonesia and Hong Kong and Ireland and Argentina and Spain and Israel and Australia.” PeopleWorldSouthIsraelCanadaAustraliaIrelandSouth AfricaSiteSpainGreeceIndonesiaBrazilArgentinaHong Kong Author:Sophie Blackall
“I did have a couple of people asking me to illustrate their MC in a hope to widen the exposure, unfortunately the messages weren't a good fit, so I couldn't oblige. And I didn't really want to become a matchmaking service. Someone posted a missed connection "I like your blog" which was directed at me... that was kind of fun to stumble across.” PeopleWantKindFunLike YouCoupleFitMessagesConnectionsAskingExposureBlogsI Like YouMissed Connections Author:Sophie Blackall
“Someone wrote to me asking me to illustrate a missed connection that "hasn't happened yet." This guy has seen the same girl waiting at a bus stop on his morning commute for weeks, and has been trying to find a way to approach her. He thought it would be fun to put up a Missed Connections poster [of my painting] on the corner where she waits and see what happens. It is kind of an intriguing idea but there's something a bit too manipulative about it for my liking. It's a fine line between being creative and stalking!” WayTryingKindHas BeensIdeasHappensWould BeGuyGirlFunBitsWaitingLinesMorningCreativeHappenedWeekPaintingFineApproachConnectionsAskingCornersBusBe CreativeThis GuyIntriguingPostersStalkingFine LinesManipulativeBus StopsMissed Connections Author:Sophie Blackall
“Some people have recognized their friends in my paintings, but I'm not directly responsible for any hooking up as far as I know!” PeopleKnowsPaintingResponsible Author:Sophie Blackall
“Odd things happen in New York, which is why it's such a great source of stories.” StoriesHappensNew YorkSourceThings HappenOddOdd Things Author:Sophie Blackall
“Nothing is known for sure, even the person who was there isn't entirely sure he or she had the same response as the other in that moment. One person might have fallen head over heels, the other might have been thinking about what to have for dinner and inadvertently making eye contact.” ThinkingPersonsHas BeensMomentsMightEyeKnownResponseDinnerContactFallenThat MomentHeelsMight Have BeenEye ContactHead Over Heels Author:Sophie Blackall
“But mostly I think two people do share a moment, and we all know that feeling, and it can put a spring in your step for the rest of the day.” PeopleThinkingKnowsTwoMomentsFeelingsStepsShareSpringSpring In Your Step Author:Sophie Blackall
