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“Writers give readers courage – the courage to be utterly your complete and complex self. (In reference to Audre Lorde)”

Quote by Jackie Kay

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Jackie Kay
Jackie Kay

Jackie Kay is a Scottish poet, novelist, and playwright. Known for her distinctive voice and exploration of identity, gender, and culture, her work encompasses personal experiences, history, and contemporary social issues. more

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