You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recov... A source page for quotes linked to Amanda Ann Gregory. 0 quotes
“Revenge fantasies can be beneficial in trauma recovery. They bring significant catharsis and reestablish a sense of empowerment after one has been made to feel powerless.” EmpowermentTraumaTherapyTrauma HealingTrauma RecoveryRevenge Is SweetCptsdRevenge Fantasy Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“There is a popular misconception in many societies that offenders who are genetically related to you are entitled to forgiveness. This makes little sense.” FamilyForgivenessAbuse SurvivorsForgiveness QuotesTrauma HealingTrauma SurvivorsIntergenerational TraumaFamily AbuseAbusive Family Quotes Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“We cannot separate forgiveness and social inequality in trauma recovery as forgiveness, trauma, and recovery always occur in a social and political context – one that is fraught with inequality.” ForgivenessSocial JusticeInequalityForgiveness QuotesTrauma SurvivorsTrauma RecoveryInequality QuotesSocial Justice QuotesForgive Quotes Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Anger is vital in trauma recovery. It starts by shielding us from those frightening, overwhelming, and devastating emotions that are waiting for us behind that door. We can hold onto that shield until we feel safe enough to open the door and cross the threshold; then, anger turns from a shield to a key.” AngerTraumaTrauma HealingAnger QuotesTrauma SurvivorsTrauma RecoveryAnger Is A GiftAnger QuotationsAnger And Grief Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Shame is the bane of my existence both as a trauma therapist and as a survivor, as it is one of the most difficult obstacles to overcome in trauma recovery. It can masquerade as guilt, pessimism, or having a low opinion of yourself, but the reality is that it’s much more damaging and invasive, as shame erodes the fabric of our self-worth and identity.” ShameTraumaSelf WorthTrauma HealingSelf Worth QuotesTrauma RecoveryShame QuotesLow Self Worth Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Shame is also self-perpetuating. You’re more likely to act in ways that support your shame than ways that challenge it.” ShameShamefulShame Quotes Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Forgiveness is not a panacea. It does not make trauma disappear, nor does it heal all emotional wounds.” ForgivenessTraumaForgiveness QuotesTrauma HealingTrauma SurvivorsTrauma RecoveryPtsd RecoveryPtsd QuotesForgiveness Therapy Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Society’s moral and relational expectations of women pressure them to forgive their offenders, even if doing so puts their safety at risk.” ForgivenessWomen EmpowermentWomen QuotesWomen RightsForgiveness Is A Choice Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Trauma is a thief. It steals our childhoods, years of our adult lives, or even our entire lifetimes. It takes away our ability to feel connected to others, to feel like we belong in the world, and to receive and extend love. It prevents us from growing and thriving. It steals our relationships, work, physical health, families, communities, spirituality, hobbies, passions, and identity. And to add insult to injury, trauma then demands that we grieve these losses in order to heal from them, which can feel overwhelming.” TraumaTraumatic ExperiencesTraumatizedTrauma SurvivorsPtsd QuotesTraumaticTraumatic StressCptsdTrauma QuotesPtsd Awareness Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“It’s often oppressed trauma survivors who have led the most successful social justice movements in American history, survivors who are commonly moved by anger, resentment, and rage – not forgiveness – toward those who are responsible for this oppression and trauma,” ForgivenessSocial JusticeForgiveForgiveness QuotesTrauma SurvivorsTrauma QuotesSocial Justice QuotesTrauma SurvivorSocial Justice Reform Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Supposed that you are a trauma survivor and member of an opposed group. In that case, you are not only more likely to experience trauma, but you are also more likely to feel pressure from society to forgive your offender(s).” ForgivenessSocial JusticeTraumaForgiveness QuotesSocial InequalitySocial Justice QuotesTrauma SurvivorForgiveness Therapy Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Pressuring, demanding, or encouraging forgiveness from Black survivors may be used as a method to avoid the realities of systemic racism and racial trauma and used as a substitution for enacting substantive social justice.” ForgivenessSocial JusticeBlack Lives MatterForgiveness QuotesSystemic RacismRacial DiscriminationRacial InjusticeBlack Trauma QuotesRacial Trauma Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms
“Many trauma survivors anxiously wait for their offender(s) to die and aren’t bothered by their death when it occurs, or they feel relieved when their offender(s) are finally gone.” TraumaPtsdAbuse SurvivorsOffendersTrauma HealingAbusersTrauma SurvivorsCptsdTrauma Quotes Book:You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms Source: You Don't Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own Terms