“Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth.” MenJoyChoicesWinningUnderstandingWomenRelationshipsFreedomAttitudeQualityMarriageClassSelf EsteemHumilityPrideConfidenceSelf LoveLessonsLetting GoRespectDignityTestsDatingCompetitionValueGoalsPositive AttitudeSelf RespectWomen EmpowermentUnrequited LoveStrong WomenChasingExperiencesFinding HappinessValidationMove OnCrossroadsRight PathPathsAdventuresThe FutureJourneysWarrior WomenKnowing Your WorthDisconnectingWhite PathYour WorthOne Path Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy to remind you of your worth, or the integrity of a gentleman to walk you home.” LoveFeelingsHomeChoicesHeavenRelationshipsFreedomQualityHonorIntegrityDignityDatingSelf ConfidenceSelf WorthMannersGentlemanSelf RespectBeliefsCourtesyRight PathHelp OthersBe BetterWarrior WomenRise HigherRespect OthersThe MoonLift OthersQuality Men Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.” MenLoveTruthGamesWomenRelationshipsSadLetting GoEgoLosingEmpowermentDignityDatingCompetitionValueSelf WorthMistakesMoving OnDesperateSelf RespectDelusionDogsPatheticTeenagersForgettingLow Self EsteemRevelationDating AdviceWasted TimeMarriagesCheatersStaying PositiveBad KarmaObservationsPlayersExamplesBetrayersFalse HappinessThe Good LifeLesson In LifeFalse ConfidenceOn SaleRegaining ControlExitingBargain Basement PricesEye OpenersLack Of ValuePositive Women Author:Shannon L. Alder
“The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.” ChoicesGamesHurtSelf EsteemLiesAbuseHatedSelf RespectWomen EmpowermentEmbarrassedIgnoredSexual AbuseEmotional AbuseBulliedNot Good EnoughOverlookedHumiliatedTaken For GrantedDumpedPhysical AbuseOptionsSelf CenterednessNot PrettyVerbal AbuseBlamingCheated OnDaughter Of GodHurting YouLack Of RespectTorturedSons Of GodLied ToNot Nice Author:Shannon L. Alder
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and let the poison take your leg. The same is true with love.” LovePainChoicesGamesRelationshipsHurtHealingFamilyClassIgnoranceFriendsLessonsConflictLetting GoDignityHatredBetrayalRevengeSelf WorthCrueltySelfishnessMoving OnRejectionSelf RespectDeceitHatefulOverlookedMean PeopleInhumanitySelf AbsorbedResolutionsMind GamesDismissalConnedVengful Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality.” RealityCourageSelf EsteemConfidenceSelf LoveUniqueIndependenceSelf WorthAuthenticityBeing YourselfSelf RespectIndividualismFreedom Of SpeechStanding OutFreedom Of ExpressionPeer PressureBrainwashedAssertivenessStayingpositiveu ComPerspectivesPersonalitiesExpressing YourselfDiffering Perspectives Author:Shannon L. Alder
“The people that truly love us in life don't fight for us to remain a doormat for others.” MenChoicesWomenMarriageCourageSelf EsteemConfidenceSelf ConfidenceSelf RespectGirlsWomen EmpowermentWorthEmpowering WomenBreakupsTrue BeautyRelationships 101DaughtersStayingpositiveu ComCommonsenseDoormatSingle WomanInner WisdomFamily SupportRaising GirlsLoving Families Author:Shannon L. Alder
“The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling them how desperate you are to believe they care as much as you. True love resides in the first chance, stupidity in the second, opportunists in the third and scoundrels in the fourth.” GamesMarriageStupidTrustDignityLiesPartnersJealousyDesperateSelf RespectControlInsecurityEmpowering WomenChancesRelationships 101No RespectCluelessSpousesTrustingCommonsensePlayersUnawareFalse LoveLack Of TrustKnowing Your WorthControlling WomenNo ControlExgirlfriendsUsesExboyfriendsDesperatenessTakes Advantage Author:Shannon L. Alder
“It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys to the kingdom.” ChoicesSpiritualityEvilGamesMarriageKindnessDatingCompetitionBetrayalInnocentSelf RespectLiarsKingdomSpouseGood WomanMateThe OneDaughter Of GodJealous WomenInsecure WomenBickering WomenInsecure WomanRight WomanChristlike WomanUnrighteous Woman Author:Shannon L. Alder
“An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reaction to what I am doing, but you’re not cool enough to be my friend. Therefore, I will just pray you see this because the approval of God is not all I need.” HumorRealityQuotesWomenObviousSocial MediaCleverFakeSelf RespectBe KindTruthfulLet It GoEmbarrassmentWalk AwayRun AwayBe BetterPinterestHidden AgendasCommentsLighten UpGoogle PlusListen MorePostingWakeup CallJabsGive People SpaceOpen Wall Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Is not the true respect and worship of God the exercising of our power in such a way that we are also respected?” LovePhilosophyGodPassionGrowthAttitudeCompassionPowerCourageConfidenceSelf LoveEvolutionWorshipRespectEmpowermentDignityValueCaringActivismFearlessSelf RespectControlSpiritual GrowthActionsLovingFlatteryMartyrMartyrdomResemblanceEmulationDoormatsWorld ViewsSimiliarity Author:Shannon L. Alder