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“Ben saw me, not just the curated version of myself I put out into the world, not just the stats of my life on paper. He saw straight through to the untouched depths of my soul, and I knew in that instant that he understood me. He knew me. Without even trying.”

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Gilded Ambition

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Jason Collins
Jason Collins

Jason Collins, born on December 2, 1978, is an American former professional basketball player. Known for his exceptional defense and team spirit, he made history in 2013 as the first active NBA player to come out as gay. more

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