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“De avond van het leven In mijn dorp aan de rivier hielden wij een keer een zondagsavonddienst in plaats van een morgendienst. Eindelijk konden we toen weer eens een paar mooie avondliederen zingen, en ik preekte over een oud Luthers avondgebed: 'Blijf bij ons, Heer, aan de avond van de dag, aan de avond van het leven, aan de avond van de wereld.' Zo is het eeuwenlang gegaan, wanneer stervelingen voor Gods aangezicht de dag uit handen gaven: dat ze er even over mijmerden dat zij eens hun leven uit handen zouden moeten geven. Godsdienstoefeningen in de kunst van het sterven waren het, zoals de completen in het klooster dat tot op heden zijn, wanneer de dag sterft, de horizon begrensd wordt en de blik zich meer naar binnen richt. 'Dat moeten we vaker doen', zeiden ze in het dorp.”

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