“What is the point of abusing yourself with guilt in the first place? If you did make a mistake and act in a hurtful way, your guilt won't reverse your blunder in some magical manner. It won't speed your learning processes so as to reduce the chance you'll make the same mistake in the future. Other people won't love and respect you more because you are feeling guilty and putting yourself down in this manner. Nor will your guilt lead to productive living. So what's the point?” PeopleIfsWayFirstsFeelingsProcessChanceMistakeGuiltSpeedGuiltyProductiveReverseLearning ProcessBlundersHurtfulLove And RespectSame MistakesFeeling Guilty Author:David D. Burns
“The biggest mistake you can make in trying to talk convincingly is to put your highest priority on expressing your ideas and feelings. What most people really want is to be listened to, respected, and understood. The moment people see that they are being understood, they become more motivated to understand your point of view.” PeopleWantTryingIdeasMomentsFeelingsViewsMistakeHighestUnderstoodPoint Of ViewPrioritiesMotivatedBiggest Mistake Author:David D. Burns
“When two people respect each other, the ability to be vulnerable and to reveal hurt feelings can create a powerful emotional connection that is the source of real intimacy and friendship.” PeopleTwoRealFeelingsHurtAbilityPowerfulEmotionalSourceConnectionsVulnerableIntimacyVulnerabilityHurt FeelingsEmotional ConnectionRespect Each Other Book:The Feeling Good Handbook Source: The Feeling Good Handbook
