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“If your child dies, or you witness a terrible natural disaster, yes, you certainly want a scientific explanation as to what's happened. But science can't help you to find meaning, help you deal with that turbulence of your grief, rage, and dismay.”

Ifs Want Children Helping Dies Natural Deals Grief Happened Terrible Our Children Rage Disaster Witness Your Children Explanation Find Me Natural Disaster Turbulence Dismay

Author:Karen Armstrong

“They remain dead, the people I try to resuscitate by straining to hear what they say. But the illusion is not pointless, or not quite, even if the reader knows all this better than I do. One thing a book tries to do, beneath the disguise of words and causes and clothes and grief, is show the skeleton and the skeleton dust to come. The author too, like those of whom he speaks, is dead.”

People Ifs Knows Trying Book Shows Speak Causes Grief One Thing Reader Clothes Illusion Dust Disguise Pointless Skeletons

Book:Prisoner of Love

Source: Prisoner of Love

“Most poetry is the utterance of a man in some state of passion, love, joy, grief, rage, etc., and no doubt this is as it should be. But no man is perpetually in a passion and those states in which he is amused and amusing, detached and irreverent, if less important, are no less amusing. If there were no poets who, like Byron, express these states, Poetry would lack something.”

Ifs Men Should Important States Joy Passion Grief Doubt Poet Rage No Doubt Etc Poetry Is Amusing Detached Amused Utterance Love Passion Byron Irreverent

Author:W. H. Auden

“If, as you believe there is an Almighty, Omnipresent, Omniscient God, who created the earth or universe, please let me know, first of all, as to why he created this world. This world which is full of woe and grief, and countless miseries, where not even one person lives in peace....Where is God? What is He doing? Is He getting a diseased pleasure out of it? A Nero! A Genghis Khan! Down with Him!”

Ifs Knows World Firsts Believe Persons Earth Universe Pleasure Grief This World Please Let Me Misery Almighty Woe Diseased Omniscient Nero

Author:Bhagat Singh

“If someone harmed or tortured or killed one of my children I'd feel everything almost anyone else would feel. I'd probably have intense feelings of revenge. But these feelings would fade. In the end they're small and self-concerned. Only the grief would last.”

Ifs Feels Children Ends Self Feelings Lasts Grief Concerned Revenge Intense My Children Fades Intense Feelings

Author:Galen Strawson

“Grief is like the wind. When it's blowing hard, you adjust your sails and run before it. If it blows too hard, you stay in the harbor, close the hatches and don't take calls. When it's gentle, you go sailing, have a picnic, take a swim.”

Ifs Hard Running Grief Wind Blow Gentle Swim Sail Sailing Harbors Picnics

Author:Barbara Ascher

“Choice! The key is choice. You have options. You need not spend your life wallowing in failure, ignorance, grief, poverty, shame, and self-pity. But hold on! If this is true then why have so many among us apparently elected to live in this manner? The answer is obvious. Those who live in unhappy failure have never exercised their options for a better way of life because they have never been aware that had any choices”

Ifs Way Needs Self Choices Answers Grief Poverty Ignorance Keys Shame Obvious Unhappy Pity Better Ways Self Pity Wallowing

Author:Og Mandino

“I get recognised a lot. If there are a load of school kids together, they'll shout at me, but I'm quite good at giving grief back. I give as good as I get.”

Ifs Giving Kids School Together Grief Load

Author:Konnie Huq

“I have my own peculiar yardstick for measuring a man: Does he have the courage to cry in a moment of grief? Does he have the compassion not to hunt an animal? In his relationship with a woman, is he gentle? Real manliness is nurtured in kindness and gentleness, which I associate with intelligence, comprehension, tolerance, justice, education, and high morality. If only men realized how easy it is to open a woman's heart with kindness, and how many women close their hearts to the assaults of the Don Juans.”

“Grief does not change you. It reveals you. And herein lies the gift that cannot die. It changes the course of your life forever. If you allow yourself the chance to feel it for as long as you need to - even if it is for the rest of your life - you will be guided by it. You will become someone it would have been impossible for you to be, and in this way your loved one lives on, in you”

Ifs Way Needs Feels Long Doe Has Beens Lying Dies Courses Chance Grief Forever Impossible Loved Ones Rest Of Your Life

Author:John Green

“...all man's desired geometric progressions, if a high rate of growth is chosen, at last come to grief on a finite earth. And the social system for man on earth is fair enough, eventually, that almost all massive cheating ends in disgrace.”

Ifs Men Ends Enough Earth Lasts Social Growth Grief Fairs Rate Chosen Cheating Massive Finite Disgrace Progression Social Systems Geometric

Author:Charlie Munger

“Grief is like a bomber circling round and dropping its bombs each time the circle brings it overhead; physical pain is like the steady barrage on a trench in World War One, hours if it with no let-up for a moment. Thought is never static pain often is... is it not yet enough?”

Ifs World War Enough Moments Pain Hours Grief Rounds Circles War Of The Worlds Bombs Steady Dropping Static Often Is One Hour Overhead Trenches Bombers Physical Pain World War One

Author:C. S. Lewis

“I know you are in grief and heaviness; and if it were not so, you might be afraid, because then your way would not be so like the way that our Lord saith leadeth to the New Jerusalem. Sure I am, if you knew what were before you, or if you saw some glances of it, you would, with gladness, swim through the present floods of sorrow, spreading forth your arms out of desire to be at land.”

Ifs Knows Way Might Desire Grief Lord Saws Land Arms Sorrow Swim Flood Glances Our Lord Jerusalem Gladness Heaviness

Author:Samuel Rutherford

“I have learned in my life that my plans don't matter. It's God's plan. I've been taught in my life that you can have plans, but you can't count on them. There's no road map. There's no textbook on how grief works and when your heart will be open - or if it ever will.”

Ifs Heart Matter Grief Plans Taught Maps I Have Learned Textbooks God's Plan Road Maps

Author:Taya Kyle

“We are seeing with great grief that America remains quiet as Turkey struggles against terrorism. Because there were promises given to us, and they need to be kept. If not, we can take care of our own business.”

Ifs Needs Care America Given Grief Struggle Seeing Promise Quiet Remains Terrorism Take Care Turkeys Own Business

Author:Recep Tayyip Erdogan

“Complicated Grief was written in larger and more coherent (if disparate) shapes. The question was how they fit together. The mind is coherent, trust that was the best writing advice I ever got (I got it from Carole Maso and I pass it on). It's true, and clearer and clearer as one grows and gains an improved sense of who one actually is (as versus who one was supposed to be).”

Ifs Writing Mind Together Grows Grief Written Advice Fit Shapes Gains Complicated Supposed To Be Versus Writing Advice Complicated Grief

Author:Laura Mullen

“If we could not forget, we would never be free from grief.”

Ifs Forget Grief

Author:Bahya ibn Paquda

“My worst year. The only thing that I know for a fact now is that if it's really a bad day, then I draw the curtains, and I lay in bed. There is no way of dealing with grief. And I have no idea. This year I had double of them, my mother and my husband. I just take it one day at a time.”

Ifs Knows Way Years Ideas Facts Mother Grief Worst One Day Bed Husband Draws Lays No Idea My Husband Curtains Bad Day One Day At A Time Take It One Day At A Time

Author:Iman Abdulmajid

“The one thing I know for a fact - some days are bad, some days are okay, and I'll go with it. If it's bad, I stay in and ride the wave and somehow, God gets me through and I'm fine. Dealing with grief doesn't work from one person to the other, it's so personal.”

Ifs Knows Persons Facts Grief One Thing Fine Okay Wave

Author:Iman Abdulmajid

“It's very important to face the grief, face the anger, and then get into a place where you are ready to fight because if you go back to the history of the United States of America, our Founders said we're giving you a Republic if you can keep it, and they also said we have a Constitution and we're going to form a more perfect union.”

Ifs Giving Said Important States America Faces Form Fighting Perfect United Grief United States Ready Constitution Unions Where You Are Republic Founders United States Of America

Author:Barbara Boxer

“If a man hasn't discovered something that he will die for, he isn't fit to live.”

Source: The Wisdom of Martin Luther King, Jr

“I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.”

Source: Hour of Gold, Hour of Lead: Diaries and Letters of Anne Morrow Lindbergh, 1929-1932

“You have moments of grief in life, and if you can put pen to paper and capture that, that's something wonderful. I can revisit actual songs about past deaths, and I know that emotion is as true now as it was then.”

Ifs Knows I Can Moments Past Song Grief Emotion Wonderful Paper Pens Capture

Author:John Lydon

“If you suppress grief too much, it can well redouble.”

“Man is subject to innumerable pains and sorrows by the very condition of humanity, and yet, as if nature had not sown evils enough in life, we are continually adding grief to grief and aggravating the common calamity by our cruel treatment of one another.”

Ifs Men Enough Character Pain Humanity Evil Literature Common Grief Virtue Conditions Subjects Honesty Integrity Sorrow Treatment Calamity Aggravation Pain And Sorrow Aggravating

Book:The Spectator, no. 1-314

Source: The Spectator, no. 1-314

“Even if happiness forgets you a little bit, never completely forget about it.”

“If you've got to my age, you've probably had your heart broken many times. So it's not that difficult to unpack a bit of grief from some little corner of your heart and cry over it.”

Ifs Heart Littles Age Bits Difficult Grief Cry Broken Corners Grieving Birthday Over It Broken Heart Aries

Author:Emma Thompson

“Grief can take care if itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.”

Ifs Care Happiness Joy Values Friendship Grief Marriage Take Care Divides Friendship Memories One Line Friendship Griefing Grief Loss Friendship Over Joy To The World Joy And Grief

Book:Following the Equator:

Source: Following the Equator:

“It is useless for me to describe to you how terrible Violet, Klaus, and even Sunny felt in the time that followed. If you have ever lost someone very important to you, then you already know how it feels, and if you haven't, you cannot possibly imagine it.”

Ifs Knows Feels Important Death Lost Felt Loss Grief Know How Imagine Havens Terrible Useless Violet Sunny Lost Someone

Author:Daniel Handler

“Fairy tale does not deny the existence of sorrow and failure: the possibility of these is necessary to the joy of deliverance. It denies (in the face of much evidence, if you will) universal final defeat...giving a fleeting glimpse of Joy; Joy beyond the walls of the world, poignant as grief.”

Ifs World Giving Doe Faces Joy Grief Existence Possibility Wall Sorrow Evidence Universal Finals Defeat Deny Tales Fairy Fairy Tale Glimpse Fleeting Deliverance Poignant

Author:J. R. R. Tolkien

“He that is thy friend indeed, He will help thee in thy need: If thou sorrow, he will weep; If thou wake, he cannot sleep: Thus of every grief in heart He with thee does bear a part. These are certain signs to know Faithful friend from flattering foe.”

Ifs Knows Needs Heart Doe Helping Certain Sleep Grief Bears Sorrow Thee Faithful Foe Flattering Faithful Friends

Book:The plays and poems of William Shakspeare

Source: The plays and poems of William Shakspeare

“How will you know the difficulties of being human, if you are always flying off to blue perfection? Where will you plant your grief seeds? Workers need ground to scrape and hoe, not the sky of unspecified desire.”

Ifs Knows Needs Humans Spiritual Desire Grief Sky Perfection Difficulty Blue Plant Workers Seeds Flying Being Human Hoe

Author:Rumi

“Passion. It lies in all of us. Sleeping... waiting... and though unwanted, unbidden, it will stir... open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us... guides us. Passion rules us all. And we obey. What other choice do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love... the clarity of hatred... the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. If we could live without passion, maybe we'd know some kind of peace. But we would be hollow. Empty rooms, shuttered and dank. Without passion, we'd be truly dead.”

“A shade of sorrow passed over Taliesin's face. 'There are those,' he said gently, 'who must first learn loss, despair, and grief. Of all paths to wisdom, this is the cruelest and longest. Are you one who must follow such a way? This even I cannot know. If you are, take heart nonetheless. Those who reach the end do more than gain wisdom. As rough wool becomes cloth, and crude clay a vessel, so do they change and fashion wisdom for others, and what they give back is greater than what they won.”

Ifs Knows Way Giving Firsts Heart Said Ends Faces Loss Grief Path Greater Fashion Sorrow Despair Gains Rough Shade Clay Giving Back Vessel Crude Wool

Book:The High King: The Chronicles of Prydain

Source: The High King: The Chronicles of Prydain

“All these tears shed in the world, where do they go? If one could capture all of them, they could water the parched. Then perhaps these tears would have value and all this grief would have some meaning. Otherwise, it was all a waste, just an endless cycle of birth and death; of love and loss.”

Ifs World Values Water Loss Grief Tears Birth Waste Endless Cycles Capture Shed Birth And Death Love And Loss

Author:Thrity Umrigar

“I took her into bed with me and propped myself up with pillows against the headboard to let her nurse. As she nursed and the milk came, she began a little low contented sort of singing. I would feel milk and love flowing from me to her as once it had flowed to me. It emptied me. As the baby fed, I seemed slowly to grow empty of myself, as if in the presence of that long flow of love even grief could not stand.”

Ifs Feels Littles Long Grows Grief Baby Bed Singing Lows Flow Empty And Love Feds Milk Nurse Pillow

Book:Hannah Coulter: A Novel

Source: Hannah Coulter: A Novel

“We are not strong enough to stand up against endless grief, And yet pain is the constant drone of life. So if we are to have any happiness at all, it is only in the passing instant.”

Ifs Enough Pain Strong Grief Constant Endless Passing Passings Instant Strong Enough Drones Not Strong Not Strong Enough

Book:Thirteen Moons: A Novel

Source: Thirteen Moons: A Novel

“Because if she let go of her grief even for a minute it would only hit her harder when she bumped into it again.”

Ifs Grief Minutes Letting Go Harder

Book:Away from Her

Source: Away from Her

“He wept, and it felt as if the tears were cleansing him, as if his body needed to empty itself.”

Ifs Body Felt Grief Tears Needed Empty Cleansing

Book:The Giver Quartet

Source: The Giver Quartet

“The Revolutionary Hill Estates had not been designed to accommodate a tragedy. Even at night, as if on purpose, the development held no looming shadows and no gaunt silhouettes. It was invincibly cheerful, a toyland of white and pastel houses whose bright, uncurtained windows winked blandly through a dappling of green and yellow leaves … A man running down these streets in desperate grief was indecently out of place.”

“There should be a statute of limitation on grief. A rulebook that says it is all right to wake up crying, but only for a month. That after 42 days you will no longer turn with your heart racing, certain you have heard her call out your name. That there will be no fine imposed if you feel the need to clean out her desk; take down her artwork from the refrigerator; turn over a school portrait as you pass - if only because it cuts you fresh again to see it. That it's okay to measure the time she has been gone, the way we once measured her birthdays.”

“I hated leaving a hole in the smoking world, and so I recruited someone to take my place. People have given me a lot of grief, but I'm pretty sure that after high school, this girl would have started anyway, especially if she chose the army over community college.”

People Ifs World School Girl Given Community Grief College High School Army Leaving Holes Hated Smoking This Girl Community College After High School Life After High School

Author:David Sedaris

“We queers of Revelation hill...died of the greed of power, because we were expendable. If you mean to visit any of us, it had better be to make you strong to fight that power. Take your languor and easy tears somewhere else. Above all, don't pretty us up. Tell yourself: None of this ever had to happen. And then go make it stop, with whatever breath you have left. Grief is a sword, or it is nothing.”

Ifs Mean Happens Fighting Left Strong Easy Grief Tears Died Breaths Greed Hills Revelations Somewhere Else Expendables

Author:Paul Monette

“There are all sorts of experiences we can't really put a name to...The birth of a child, for one. Or the death of a parent. Falling in love. Words are like nets--we hope they'll cover what we mean, but we know they can't possibly hold that much joy, grief, or wonder. Finding God is like that, too. If it's happened to you, you know what it feels like. But try to describe it to someone else--and language only takes you so far.”

Ifs Knows Feels Trying Mean Children Joy Fall Names Language Parent Grief Wonder Happened Birth Findings Falling In Love Finding God Birth Of A Child

Author:Jodi Picoult

“If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your heard even, you experience them fully and completely.”

Ifs Way Pain Grief Emotion Heard Busy Vulnerability Allowing Throwing Too Busy Detached Being Afraid

Author:Mitch Albom

“Karma is the beginning of knowledge. Next is patience. Patience is very important. The strong are the patient ones, Anjin-san. patience means holding back your inclination to the seven emotions: hate, adoration, joy, anxiety, anger, grief, fear. If you don't give way to the seven, you're patient, then you'll soon understand all manner of things and be in harmony with Eternity.”

Ifs Way Giving Mean Important Joy Hate Next Strong Grief Emotion Anxiety Eternity Harmony Seven Patient Karma Inclination Adoration Holding Back Shoguns

Book:SHOGUN

Source: SHOGUN

“Let's face it. We're undone by each other. And if we're not, we're missing something. If this seems so clearly the case with grief, it is only because it was already the case with desire. One does not always stay intact.”

Ifs Doe Seems Faces Desire Grief Cases Missing Undone Missing Something

Book:Undoing Gender

Source: Undoing Gender

“Dealing with the impossible, fantasy can show us what may be really possible. If there is grief, there is the possibility of consolation; if hurt, the possibility of healing; and above all, the curative power of hope. If fantasy speaks to us as we are, it also speaks to us as we might be”

Ifs May Shows Might Speak Hurt Grief Healing Fantasy Impossible Possibility Consolation

Author:Lloyd Alexander

“Your tale is of the longest," observed Monks, moving restlessly in his chair. It is a true tale of grief and trial, and sorrow, young man," returned Mr. Brownlow, "and such tales usually are; if it were one of unmixed joy and happiness, it would be very brief.”

Ifs Men Would Be Moving Young Joy Grief Sorrow Trials Tales Young Man Chairs Monk Joy And Happiness

Book:Oliver Twist

Source: Oliver Twist

“Sometimes grief is a comfort we grant ourselves because it's less terrifying than trying for joy. Nobody wants to admit it. We'd all declare we want to be happy, if we could. So why, then, is pain the one thing we most often hold on to? Why are slights and griefs the memories on which we choose to dwell? Is it because joy doesn't last but grief does?”

Ifs Want Trying Doe Sometimes Pain Lasts Joy Memories Grief One Thing Comfort Grants Want To Be Happy

Author:Megan Hart

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