“Never presume to know a person based on the one dimensional window of the internet. A soul can’t be defined by critics, enemies or broken ties with family or friends. Neither can it be explained by posts or blogs that lack facial expressions, tone or insight into the person’s personality and intent. Until people “get that”, we will forever be a society that thinks Beautiful Mind was a spy movie and every stranger is really a friend on Facebook.” LifeHumorChoicesCultureLanguageWhiteAttitudeTechnologySocietyNew YorkTelevisionPersonalityInternetMadnessCriticsSocial MediaStupidityImprovementHelping OthersInsanityAnalysisCommunication SkillsNutsGesturesBizarreSpeculationDeafTwistedCourtesyCritiqueRevelationLove One AnotherComputersJane AustenTextingPerception Of RealityCrazy PeopleCelebritiesShallownessWindowsUnintelligentCommonsenseLifting UpChanging TimesLack Of CommunicationBroken FamiliesInterpersonal CommunicationZimmermanHallConundrumBennettRising HigherDeep WebPlanoSocial RulesOne DimensionalArt Of CommunicationAss BackwardsLoss Of Social InteractionPhelpsWackadooBordelonGithubLack Of RealityTrue InsanityWacky PeopleWorld Of Suck Author:Shannon L. Alder
“Traumatic events destroy the sustaining bonds between individual and community. Those who have survived learn that their sense of self, of worth, of humanity, depends upon a feeling of connection with others. The solidarity of a group provides the strongest protection against terror and despair, and the strongest antidote to traumatic experience. Trauma isolates; the group re-creates a sense of belonging. Trauma shames and stigmatizes; the group bears witness and affirms. Trauma degrades the victim; the group exalts her. Trauma dehumanizes the victim; the group restores her humanity. Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed---faith, decency, courage---is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality...” FaithHumanityCommunityHealingCourageSocietyAbuseVictimAffectionRecoveryGenerosityConnectionBelongingSurvivorIsolatedRejectedAltruismPtsdDecencyAbuse SurvivorsOutcastInhumanSurvivorsBondingInhumanityBondHealing InsightsTraumatic ExperiencesBondsTraumatizedDehumanizationInhumaneRecovery From AbuseHealing AbuseConnection With PeopleDehumanisationLoss Of SelfVictimizedNo Longer HumanDehumanizeDehumanizedInhumane TreatmentFeeling HumanLoss Of Social InteractionReclaiming DignityReclaiming Your Life Book:Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror Source: Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror