tracy-a-malone Quotes About narcissism

“Friends are the family that had other mothers. To really live a fulfilled life, hold your friends close and do the work to stay connected.”

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“Actions really are louder than words, judge everyone by their ability to be as good as her/his word. Give a second chance once.”

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“If I promise to miss you, do you promise to go away?”

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“A MASK OF LIES IS BUILT TO TRAP YOU. TOO MANY THINGS IN COMMON SHOULD RAISE RED FLAGS, UNTIL COMMONALITIES ARE PROVEN.”

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“THE TRUTH IS NARCISSISTS ARE VERY SMALL INSIGNIFICANT HUMANS. THEY HAVE NOTHING TO GIVE TO THE WORLD SO THEY DESTROY OTHERS TO MAKE THEMSELVES SEEM IMPORTANT.”

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“The ruminating thoughts often haunt victims at night. You are haunted by the "what happened", "how could they do this to me", "who does this?" thoughts. One day, these thoughts will subside and the fear will lift.”

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“VICTIMS OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE GET BEAT UP EMOTIONALLY AND OFTEN PHYSICALLY. THEIR VOICE IS SILENCED AND THEY LOSE THEMSELVES. YOUR JOB IS TO GET FREE, DO THE WORK TO HEAL AND NEVER LOOK BACK.”

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“Every problem you face is an opportunity to learn something. The biggest lessons in your life have been learned from the darkest days.”

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“BOUNDARIES STEP ONE - set a boundary, what do you not want to hear, see, or do. STEP TWO-decide limits - what you will and will not tolerate STEP THREE - pay attention to people's reactions, if your boundaries make someone mad, then that person is abusing you. LESSON - someone that loves you would never hurt you, PERIOD! Learn this and self-love and you will be ok. @tracyAMalone”

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“Many survivors get so angry that they find themselves dropping the f-bomb all the time, even when they never swore in their lives. This expression of unfamiliar anger is quite healthy, it's okay to be fucking angry! Just make your way out by healing the wounds.”

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“We were always taught to never play with fire... Why weren't we warned about a more likely meeting of a narcissist? This job now falls to victims to educate the world. Spread the word and save a soul.”

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“Have you ever noticed that a narcissist could do terrible things to you and by morning it's as if nothing happened. This is so confusing to the victim experiencing these 180 behaviors. It's grooming you that are required to forgive and forget and never discuss it again. In contrast if you do something to offend them, they become hyper focused and never let you forget.”

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“The narcissistic poison. Believe again and learn to trust again because if you don't the poison worked.”

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“Narcissists can get physical! Many people don't understand that control can look many different ways. Not all narcissists go in this direction, but those that use physical threats will always use it as their control tool.”

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“Cheating always repeats. The entitlement of a narcissist to cheat without conscience is their choice. Your choice is to run and file for divorce!”

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“Narcissists are blamers, they are not capable of taking responsibility. At first you know it is not your fault, over time you get exhausted from trying to explain your innocence and you surrender to the lies, just to keep the peace.”

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“Children who experience narcissistic parents’ rage and disapproval hold that feeling of 'not good enough’ which makes them vulnerable to repeating abuse patterns.”

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“Narcissists are consistently inconsistent this keeps the victim living in cognitive dissonance”

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“AGING WITH A NARCISSIST You thought you would grow old together, travel the world, and be there in sickness as you age. A narcissists sense of entitlement destroys this promise, they will abandon you for greener pasture.”

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“Narcissists use jealousy to control you. They flirt in front of you and when you ask about it, you become the jealous one. They get jealous and accuse you of things you aren't doing. They also get jealous of the closeness of your friends and family, so they gaslight you into isolating yourself from them.”

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“In narcissistic abuse recovery you will raise your awareness of bad behavior. You will see people’s actions through a lens of protection and no longer tolerate drama and lower vibrational energy vampires. Of course knowing red flags is important but tapping into and listening to how someone makes you feel, is the key to happiness. A drama free zone must be the protection you deploy. If someone causes you to run to others to try to understand their behaviors, this relationship is not healthy for you. We need no labels, we need no proof they are a narcissist, you need to listen to your gut, and you need courage to walk away. No drama equals peace. Drama equals confusion, sadness, and fear.”

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“Narcissistic Abuse it's always your fault. Victims internalize "I am never good enough.”

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“One day you may get angry at yourself. Angry for staying, angry for allowing bad behavior without a stronger fight, and angry for not knowing exactly what this was. Getting angry at yourself is a stage you must go through as you look for answers. Anger propels change, without anger victims stay or allow them back. Your goal should be to move through the anger and not stay in anger too long.”

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“LOVEBOMBING WAS SWEET... IT WAS EVERYTHING AFTER THAT THAT SUCKED.”

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“HEARING THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR HEAD The voices, the words, and the devaluing messages will haunt you. At first you may hear the good promises or things they said that were seemingly loving. You cling, wishing they were true again. These messages are holding you to them. Other times the internal messages become haunting words. 'You are no good', 'you can't do anything right', 'you are not good enough'. These messages internalize as truths until we heal and accept the truth. They were lying to keep you controlled.”

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“Narcissistic abuse rips your heart out in so many ways. First because of the time spent, then the discard and battle of lies. Sadly, to see the damage they caused your children”

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“True recovery happens when you get to the stage of understanding you ‘were’ angry, but today you ‘choose’ to not let anger steal another minute.”

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“A narcissist’s goal is to keep you small. Limiting your financial access to your own money is a favorite tactic. Your goal is to learn your rights and take back your power. Feeling small is common for victims until they realize this is just another narcissistic lie.”

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“Creating a new story after narcissistic abuse. You are not being delusional and making up alternate truths, you are choosing which parts of the story you want to hold onto. Holding onto the painful bits keep you trapped in yesterday. By letting go of the pain, you open your heart to a new tomorrow.”

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“Narcissists who cheat do leave signs if we are looking. New clothes, change in appearance, sudden interest in gym. Locked phones, more time away, phone calls or texts that they leave the room for.”

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“Poison can present in a pretty bottle narcissistic abuse can also present in a pretty bottle beware of something being too good to be true.”

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“The scapegoat of a narcissistic parent is never safe. Situations are created by the narcissistic parent to blame the child for things they never did. Much of their lives is pushing back against the lies. The child internalizes that they can't do anything right, some fight back, others surrender and give up fighting.”

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“Narcissists specialize in guilt. They do something wrong; you ask to talk about it. They flip the script into you not loving them, not trusting them or being cruel like your mother. Then you end up feeling guilty!”

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“Narcissists can never hear you. You have no right to set a boundary, speak up or speak honestly. Once you are isolated from support, the resistance grows, leaving the victim confused and lost.”

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“What you end up regretting is not the things you did, but the things you didn't do.”

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“Most say setting boundaries with a narcissist rarely works. I suggest that the act of trying to set a boundary (despite its most likely results) is far better than never trying at all. For when you surrender and stop trying to set boundaries they get their way and they win. Never stop fighting for your rights.”

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“Narcissists are emotional porcupines, watch out for the quills!”

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“After narcissist abuse your world may seem small at first. You are grieving the loss of a partner and everything you used to do in that small world, It's time to let go of the old and write the new chapter. Imagine a world as big, fun and peaceful as you want.”

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“You need to depend on yourself to make yourself happy. Depending on others to make you happy will not end well.”

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“Getting to the other side of recovery, starts with one baby step. A new life filled with peace and joy is on the other side.”

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